Ist day

I hate “first days” without any reason. First days of schools, colleges ,university and  I don’t even watch the first episode of any drama . I used to skip  1^st  Day  of everything. But sometimes you have to come across this too. First day of my most recent ex-office was strange and wired than others. I entered in office (sharp 9am that I was supposed to be) and then I sat in to reception area. It was a big room having photocopy machine, TV, four black sofa’s (one of them I was sitting) and decorated with some ethnic pieces. I was anxiously waiting , in this feeling, I asked blue and black pant wearing man (support staff) what should I do ? He replied just wait. Then after 15 mins, my wait got over and my boss said to me lets go and finally I got my cabin full of messy things. Then I got orientation, read books, got introduction with whole staff, little chit chat with people and that how 1^st day closed. My first lesson was not to come on time.

 No one bothered whether other’s wore simple frock and abya . Because according to them, everyone must be accountable to their own actions. Every passing time the environment absorbing me and EM adopting their norms. And within 1 month nothing is strange to me. My messy desk changed into new desk and my front board is filled with sticky notes with hotel Transylvania wallpaper on desktop.  After 3 months everything going into continuity, work and even my desk. Everyone became my friends

But when my arrival date came,(completion of contract ), everything went in reverse motion. Everything was going away from me. Now my full desk changed into empty. I wrapped the  whole stuff and handled things to supervisors. I had associated some fears with first day or I consciously wanted to avoid introductory session of everything. I wanted to see things in flow every one cheering, not to struggling for making relationship or other’s making fun of their first appearance.  Mostly in office, everyone is teasing the new comers without recalling their own 1^st day. Putting barriers and discouraging and back biting. This used to happen everywhere. I  also became victim of this like others.

Through my good listening skills without interpreting them and won’t broadcasted it. I concluded people used to backbite their seniors, when they mostly need their juniors as a guide.  (It happened in offices when they hired new seniors or some doesn’t like anyone to be superior than them etc) .Most loveable moment is when backbiting is prohibited in offices and every single person proudly disobeying the law.  :D

 It is psychological that we hardly welcome others with full heart. This feeling called ragging in educational institutes. This ragging changed into discouraging or in official language calls “leg pulling”. In houses we used to call this phenomenon “grudges” towards latest edition of family calls “daughter n law”. It is a vicious cycle hurters ain’t feel this how much they unconformable others.  No matter how bad was happening with us in past we should try to adopt new changes appearing in life. Life is about constant changes in structure otherwise I would be monotonous.

In nutshell, 1st day fear come along with all new comers of every stage. In more causal words we can say its “revenge “. To take from those who never hurts you. Like suicide bombers taking “revenge” of whom they don’t know. The points from above I’m trying to make here is no body won’t replace you and you can’t replace anyone. Rather than to jealous just embrace new change and forget new comer’s some mistakes. Be optimistic J

Pakistan is not a worst place

Tell me the positive things about Pakistan. Since the birth of Pakistan you came across this sentence. Earlier it was very easy to answer this question. But now genocide killing, target killing and drone attacks lost its importance in a very true sense. This makes us insane towards this question?  Figuring out positive and negative is in human nature. That statement makes this question justified. Everyone straightly reply nothing is good about Pakistan . But my mind doesn’t accept this answer.

On 14^th August I was talking to my friend he wants to take admission further and was telling there is only few universities that are good. Unfortunately, in his list name of his own university where is graduated was not included. Like this one person came to city first time but was disappointed because everything was same. Like this we don’t like our country. There are so many reasons why we don’t like our country like; extreme inflation, not access to basic necessities moreover steady killing of persons made icing of hating.  So have we ever talked about positivity in Pakistan?

Everyone very easily declared Pakistan a failure state. But how come Pakistan always stands with destructed country or people. No matter they are Muslims or not. Like the case of Syria every Pakistani is standing against the act of America. Iraq time Pakistan stop using the products of America for showing the solidarity for Iraqi’s.  It is true Pakistan is going through its hard time but doesn’t prove at all nothing is good in Pakistan. So let’s make a list what is really good about Pakistan that have  to proud of it.

First of all Pakistan is friend of every country. Pakistan is not considering any country its enemy. Pakistan is one of those countries who always accept every country’s independence with true heart. Not only she has volunteering her soldiers for making peace in different countries.

Despite the Muslim country Pakistan doesn’t restrict anyone to wear certain clothes either you are foreigner or not. Pakistan is counted in world’s number one philanthropist country. Every country  is facing bagger’s issue so that Pakistan does. Despite its tough condition Pakistan is having the privilege of having higher IQ people. We can saw this by the records of A and O’s level.

 Abdul Satter  Edhi (Edhi Foundation runs the world's largest ambulance service and operates free nursing homes, orphanages, clinics, women's shelters, and rehab centers for drug addicts and mentally ill individuals. It has run relief operations in Africa, Middle East, the Caucasus region, eastern Europe and US where it provided aid following the New Orleans hurricane of 2005.)Who works for the world without any cause don’t you consider it is better than UN or UNDP ; who never raise voice against US for her brutality for Iraq and Syria.  I always heard this when I was in college and school we have to collect money for tsunami and other disasters. So Pakistan is not putting strength to building its nation but still have heart.

Positive thing is not only restricted to its philanthropist nature and high IQ level . Pakistan has having best forces in world . Pakistan is country combined with different weathers that other’s don’t have. Pakistan's gas distribution network is the second largest in the world after that of the United States. The media in Pakistan is among the most independent in the world as are the world-class journalists that comprise this institution. Moreover, Samina Baigh Giligit girl(Giligit reproach in people’s eye) who climbed the Everest at the age of 21.

We all not deny this fact that Pakistan is no doubt facing trouble time. But we can’t say this bad because never be a  part of invade any country. Pakistan never ever impose false allegation to any other. Many who raise the slogan of worst country to Pakistan consider those counted in those who are remain rulers by  snubbing other’s.

The point I am trying to make above it is very hard to love the country where thousands of people die daily ;effected by disaster and no help . But we hardly heard this words from effected people but we heard this words from those who hate Pakistan because it fashionista. Hard time had come to many countries and then they become super power. We can’t compare our country to India or any other. It’s about political upheavals and bad governance system that make people to hate any land.