Face book is famous social networking website,
daily many people used it. And the ratio
of this is growing rapidly. Face book is launched in February 2004 and now in
2011 face book have 800million active users.
Daily many people connect to face book via computer, laptop and through
cell. On face book people made accounts and make lots of friends, make groups,
pages, events and community pages. FB users usually update their status daily
and most often they upload their recent photographs of any event. And their
friends like and comment on these pictures. FB users chit chat with their
friends, write on the wall of the friends, tagged friends on different pictures.
Also like many pages and groups of different brands either these brands haven’t
any outlet in their city or even in their country. It is an advanced and
fastest social electronic source of communication. FB users easily connect to
any world’s site and also they can also make their own page or group and invite
FB users of all around the world.
Here I don’t want to discuss the pros
and cons of FB. People love to chat with
their friends on FB and it is their hobby to tag friends on pics , write on
their walls and love to play games on it. Many users still love to harvest
their crops, buy animals for their farms and always want trying to expand their
farms. Hope you guys understand what I’m talking about famous game of FB
‘’Farmville’’. Those things that I wish
to buy , but I can’t, I bought all luxurious items on ‘’Youville’’. So how I
spend my most of time after my internship in just buying shoes, prom dresses.
But after completing two internships my thinking towards FB it’s totally been
changed. Where I was working, everyone
is spending their time on FB. Despite this crucial fact, FB is banned during
office timings. But everyone used to check their notifications before starting
their work and also on half time. Anyhow, after this , in Pakistan FB was
banned for few months then people quickly jumped to other social networking
sites. I also made many accounts but after
the ban period I hate to use FB. But I was free after my internships so you
guys know what would be better choice of spending free time? FB. Same case is
with me. Oh I forget to tell you something my first account of FB had hacked by
someone. And one of my close friend tell me the hacker wrote some inappropriate
words on wall and also on my friends wall. And daily she insists me to make
another account and tell the hacker that you are not afraid from him. But after
few weeks, my brother made account for me and through this I convey the message
that my account has been hacked.
Anyways, few weeks later I came on FB world with new account that I am
still using.
So the whole stories relating to FB in
my life creating some sort of disturbances. Sometimes, I feel bad why I shouldn’t
buy luxurious items like Youville. But
thank to Allah I overcome this depression by writing habit. After my
internships, on new account, I immediately join all designers pages and groups
, cosmetics pages and groups . So most of the time I spend my time while liking,
commenting on these pages and groups. On
my FB I added each and every person whom I met two or three times. But I
deleted some persons on my FB accounts because I believe if you don’t talk or
contact with people even not once in a blue moon so how could be they are your
friends. So now in my FB only my classmates of university ,college ,school and
some of my colleagues are on my FB friend’s list.
Sometimes FB hits my inner soul and
only gave me complexes like having good job, good bf, god marriage life, sometimes
luxurious items etc. I do everything to
overcome this. I keenly observed when I left FB for few weeks everything going
normal but when I started using FB again then I don’t know I can’t overcome
this feeling. And not these things
solely became a cause of my depression. Here I share you one of my bitter experience
relating to FB. In university teachers considered me a good, mannered student.
When my university is about to finish, one of my teacher going abroad, so
students arranged farewell for him. The invitation of this is announced on our
discipline group. For this whomever want to come should contribute 300 PRP,
everyone started ragging the event organizer’s boy (he is also our classmate).
Like other’s I also commented on this boy, and after my comment my new class
mate comment this is too much (300rp) we preferred to go to class than to
attend the party. After that the event organizer boy said sir got annoy of those
students who show, show off behavior.
That time I thought he was kidding but after as time passes I realized
sir talked to everyone except me. After few months, I understand this
misunderstanding. Still on my FB my
teacher is on my friend’s list. But I can’t understand what to do, what to say?
So here is my story of FB. Now I used FB only once in a month. There are lots
of things related to FB that pinch me. After reading this article, will you
guys help me to get out of this facebook depression? ….
