Our forefathers think the advancement of technology makes our relations bad. And now relationship has not the real taste as before. Build relations are now more rapidly broken than the earlier. Forefathers used to complaint the running net in young generation hands, on and on dating. But it makes our lives easy especially for those couples who can’t meet frequently. But it’s my personal experience if someone is really loves you or sincere you he/she can never betray you. Either you don’t talk to him or even break up due to some issues. Your partners always search you and proved his love. In real love the daily communication, dating is not bother. The story of Prince William and her dare princess Kate is also one of them. But we can’t ignore the importance of these blessing in relationship.
Relationship often built on first attraction that girl and boy equally feel. Then sms, Skype etc and dating is started. Firstly boy flattered girl and wants the girl to be his own property. In this he tried to gain her trust and proved himself a true lover at any cost. Then the relationship grows at once. Because the girls psych is easy to handle. And boys easily grab the fish. When the girl shows equal importance boys feel like a king. And happy to become a owner of a goat. I feel very sorry while writing above words but this is a bitter reality. This is the psych of every man. They like to attract women to themselves. But once the relationship is build then the depression is started. After into the relationship, mostly girls complaint about their partner. Man don’t show importance to them as a before in relationship. It’s not illusion of girls, it’s what really boys do. So why we girls complaint about our beloved? Why we complaint that they ignore us? How we found our partner is really loves us? Our we secure our relationship?
First and last most important thing is love is blind. No one can give guarantee of human.If someone loves you he will love you at the end of his life. Like Remo Juliet. Before going into relationship firstly make sure that the people express his feelings by his mouth, clearly with no other conditions. Sometimes, girls imagined the flirter time pass relationship is her true love. If boy say, I like you ;can I take your cell no. that definitely means he want time-pass relationship that girls and boys used to make for fun. If a boy jumped on by saying I love you will you become my valentine. So beware he is also not your love. Love is happen when you and other person don’t know how this feeling emerge. Anyways after in relationship always be calm and try to deal everything calmly and with patience. Before blaming to other party ,do catharsis of own self. We girls usually do if boy don’t reply our message we constantly calls or sms him till our phone credit ends. This is worst and foolish thing. Don’t do that, be patience and wait for his call or message. Then he automatically replied. But when we give so many missed calls and long ring phone calls and sms then the boy become angry. If he is about to contact you then after this habit they drop this idea of contacting.
So be patient. But if they boy don’t reply after passing so many days, then try to investigate it why he don’t reply you . In this don’t involve any of your friend on one is as true to you as you for yourself. Before lamping in to any decision or work try to you be patient and wait. I know wait is bitter word in love. Also when you desperately looking for someone. Because sometimes your early decision or work may destroy your relationship . One of my close friend do the same then her boy breakup the relationship . Even though they both truly loves each other but her earlier makes her relationship worst . Actually she involves her friends in this and her friends used to call him frequently and one of them also talk to his mother by her name. So now after 2yrs he again talks to her but now she don’t do these things again now she is happy . So this our common mistake that we girls used to do . Especially when we are our teens.
If your boy don’t contact you or don’t even left a message or email. Then call him and clear the situation if he still don’t accept your call .so don’t contact him again, if he is interested he will contact you. If not then keep moving on. And say life not ends here. He is not made for me.
Many girls don’t do these they are more clever they know how to deal her boy. But sometimes overconfidence is also bad. This case usually happen is after teen girls’ relationship. Their boys are very nice to them also sometimes love them. But some of them also have back-up option. If any case they break-up the girl boys have another option for them. So be vigilant and time to time asked him his feelings about you. When boy is also in practical life means doing job quickly decides the date of marriage. Because its save or easy to know if he is not sincere he will leaves you if not then you saved of losing true love. This case is very common in indo-Pak. But where is true love everything will be good in the end. If you don’t get your lover for any case like in Pakistan many couples don’t marry because of their parents this doesn’t mean you love a wrong person. It actually means you love a true lover who doesn’t left their old relations for new one.
But still someone wants her bf attention at any cost. So do be patience. Also listen what your partner want to say. Also understand his feelings and problems. Develop such relation that he automatically tells his problems to you. Don’t compliant or blame him when he calls you after long time. Be gentle and softly handle him. Also express your feelings indirectly or directly after listening his story with no interruption. Always remember anger spoils your every relation.
Anyhow it’s a common case in Pakistan. Many guys start relationship via internet they start talking to each other through different social networking website. Build a relationship even many of them tie n knot with each other. But in other words we should thanks to our dare internet that makes many relationship . In last , machine is just machine, it invented by man himself. We human misuse everything. In the last, excesses of everything is bad even its our relationship. So keep in mind no one knows yourself as you can. So by keeping in relationship don’t flow yourselves in anything as much as you lost yourself. Love is who accept yourself as you. If someone demands you to change yourself so he is not your true love. Always remind one thing if your partner truly loves you he will come you. If no one bother your effort of patience and don’t contact you forget him. Take advice from your dear one but in the end solve it by yourself.
