Shouting, screaming, scolding
even beating is associated with the love disasters. Why you always doing sms,
calls, net and balla balla. These words you probably heard from the mouth of
your family. It may be period of your first crush. When you have experienced
your first crush. This is the period of
teen. Many are experiencing the upheavals of early teen. Some forget this
period with end of early teen .But love and its disaster cannot be associated
to any of the stage, age of life. You can anytime fall in love and you can face
its disasters.
In the twenties many youngsters
fall in love. You also heard this in
love there is no boundary; you fall in love with anyone at anywhere. At once
life has been changed, even the bitter words, worst weather and everything like
a heaven.
“It’s easy to believe
in magic when you’re young. Anything you couldn’t explain was magic then. It
didn’t matter if it was science or a fairy tale. Electricity and elves were both
infinity mysterious and equally possible _elves probably more so’’. Charles de
Lint.
There are many types of
disasters. But love disasters mostly man-made. World can’t understand this
innocent emotion and the feelings of girl and boy. They only see the changes
appear in lovers. Psychical beauty that automatically appears especially in
girls. Lovers want extra space for themselves. In which they spent time with
each other. They pay extra attention to enhancing their beauty. Their extra space,
spare abnormal attitude of optimism cause of man-made disasters. So here the
story of love and other disasters starts.
Firstly they had a
suspicion. Then they started investigating for searching the truth. By any
means they want to know the truth. So they finally succeed in getting the
truth. Parents, elder siblings started torching the lovers. And parents’
siblings restrict their life. Make rigid rules and regulation for lovers. No
one thought appropriate to understand their feelings.
The guy or girl you are
meeting is not good. He/she have a bad character. His/her companionship is
harmful for you. We know the world better than you. You are kid. Even the lover
is studying in university with doing job heard these words from everywhere. This
is behavior of the parents, siblings lover had bear. But the lover is lover.
And love is blind. Moreover if it is first love. No one can’t imagine the
feelings of lover if though parents and siblings also experienced such
feelings. But the ego nature, so called respect and name of society made them
cruel.
Opponents of the lovers
I mean the families also sometime interviewed them. Either he/she are capable
of being loving or not. Mostly lovers were rejected. If they passed the interview then the whole life
becomes an examination hall for them.
Many newlywed couples,
even old married couples can’t express their feelings as they want. After
marriage n laws become a hurdle in the lovers. They feel hatred and jealousy
with their happiness and above I mentioned. The man-made disaster doesn’t alone
the lovers. These man-made disasters sometimes lead to suicide of the lover.
Lastly, just to
understand other feelings don’t impose your rigid rules to others .life is very
short. Love is very sweet feeling. No one have a reason to tell you why they
love. So become neutral. Don’t make lovers rebellions.
Here is my favorite
quotation; this is dedicated to all lovers
I was born when you
kissed me.
I was died when you
left me.
I lived a few weeks
while you loved me.
