Love and other disasters;

Shouting, screaming, scolding even beating is associated with the love disasters. Why you always doing sms, calls, net and balla balla. These words you probably heard from the mouth of your family. It may be period of your first crush. When you have experienced your first crush.  This is the period of teen. Many are experiencing the upheavals of early teen. Some forget this period with end of early teen .But love and its disaster cannot be associated to any of the stage, age of life. You can anytime fall in love and you can face its disasters.

In the twenties many youngsters fall in love.  You also heard this in love there is no boundary; you fall in love with anyone at anywhere. At once life has been changed, even the bitter words, worst weather and everything like a heaven.

“It’s easy to believe in magic when you’re young. Anything you couldn’t explain was magic then. It didn’t matter if it was science or a fairy tale. Electricity and elves were both infinity mysterious and equally possible _elves probably more so’’. Charles de Lint.

There are many types of disasters. But love disasters mostly man-made. World can’t understand this innocent emotion and the feelings of girl and boy. They only see the changes appear in lovers. Psychical beauty that automatically appears especially in girls. Lovers want extra space for themselves. In which they spent time with each other. They pay extra attention to enhancing their beauty. Their extra space, spare abnormal attitude of optimism cause of man-made disasters. So here the story of love and other disasters starts. 

Firstly they had a suspicion. Then they started investigating for searching the truth. By any means they want to know the truth. So they finally succeed in getting the truth. Parents, elder siblings started torching the lovers. And parents’ siblings restrict their life. Make rigid rules and regulation for lovers. No one thought appropriate to understand their feelings.

The guy or girl you are meeting is not good. He/she have a bad character. His/her companionship is harmful for you. We know the world better than you. You are kid. Even the lover is studying in university with doing job heard these words from everywhere. This is behavior of the parents, siblings lover had bear. But the lover is lover. And love is blind. Moreover if it is first love. No one can’t imagine the feelings of lover if though parents and siblings also experienced such feelings. But the ego nature, so called respect and name of society made them cruel.

Opponents of the lovers I mean the families also sometime interviewed them. Either he/she are capable of being loving or not. Mostly lovers were rejected.  If they passed the interview then the whole life becomes an examination hall for them.

Many newlywed couples, even old married couples can’t express their feelings as they want. After marriage n laws become a hurdle in the lovers. They feel hatred and jealousy with their happiness and above I mentioned. The man-made disaster doesn’t alone the lovers. These man-made disasters sometimes lead to suicide of the lover.

Lastly, just to understand other feelings don’t impose your rigid rules to others .life is very short. Love is very sweet feeling. No one have a reason to tell you why they love. So become neutral. Don’t make lovers rebellions.

Here is my favorite quotation; this is dedicated to all lovers

I was born when you kissed me.

I was died when you left me.

I lived a few weeks while you loved me.