Boys Katrina kaif

Boys have long wish list for their companion. No girl can fulfill their wish list. The opposite sex that impressed them is only their mothers. No one can impress them even if she is his sister, wives, girl friend. The psyche of boys is very complicated. Boys want those girls who always cherish them.

·         He likes Long and silky hair girl.

·         Should drive car, but no one dare to see his girl friend or wife.

·         Should be master chief.

·        Always wants his wife to take a good care of his family. But gives proper attention to him also.

·       Boys don’t like the high grade of his girl friends or wives. If it do so then they always show suspecting behavior.

·       He always wants to be calling breadwinner of the house. Although his wife is working also.

·         Boys flirt at a time with many girls but do not like this for his sisters.

·         They laugh on girls for watching dramas.

·         They show attitude towards their girl friends.

·         Always set upper position for him. Don’t laying her.

·         They can’t tolerate if girl praise her male class fellow or any male cousin in front of him.

·         Whatever the girls do what he wants is only obedient and soghar wife.

·        He doesn't like her shopaholic nature on other hand; also don’t like her working nature.

·         He seems her secret property.

·      When he is with his friends always exaggerate the behavior of his wife or girl friend.(yar she always suspect me! Poor we! Trapped by them) (yar bhut  shak karti hai ! hum bachre masoom un ke jal ……..)

·      They never regard or oblige her love and care.  Even don’t praise her cooking.

·      Girls change their selves for boys but he say only one thing why should I change my habits for her if she loves me then love me as I am.

·       He always hides his feelings and never shows it.

·     He only praises girls at the time of romance. After that he forgets what he says. Even his romance.

·       He can’t easily forgive her mistakes. At every stage of life he always hurts her by her past mistakes.

·      He is a mama’s boy. Whatever the girl do in last he only say Alas! You would not be like my mom. (Kash tum meri ami jasi hoti). He only likes those habits that are similar to his mother.

Boys psyche is very complicated. No girl can fulfill their childish demands. I think no one in the world get the remarks that you cook better that my mom. Or I am impressed a lot with your success of career. Boys want his superiority either it’s the matter of his girl friend or wife. It would be an insulting comment for them that “your wife or girl friend is more successful than you’’ 

Blessing of last Ashra of Ramadan and greetings of Eid.

 "Oh ye who believe! Fasting is prescribed to you as it was prescribed to those before you, that ye may (learn) self-restraint..." Quran II: 183

Ramadan is holy month for Muslims. This holy month celebrated with full enthusiasm and respect. In this month Muslims fast and worship Allah. Muslims of whole world desperately wait for this holy month. This is special token for earning swab.  In this month Muslims get double swab on single good deed. The Holy PROPHET (S.A.W.W) said: ‘it (Ramadan) is the month, whose beginning is Mercy, its middle is Forgiveness & its end is Emancipation from the fire’- Bihar.alanwar, Volume: 93, Page No. 342. First two Ashra’s are gone. Now 5 fast of third Ashra’s are left.  Every Ashra has its importance and specific blessings. But the third Ashra is superior to first two. There are lots of things associated with this last Ashra. First one its importance of emancipation from hellfire. Second Allah send Holy book Quran to Muslims in this last Ashra. Allah said to Muslims search the night in which he send Quran . Laila-tu-Qadar and Itakaf is also associated with this third Ashra.

 The last Friday of Ramadan is marked around the world as Yaum al Quds. On the last Friday Muslims offer Friday prayers in a very large number. And say goodbye to Ramadan in very obliged manner.

The Holy Prophet (S.A.W.W) said;

                         ‘’ To perform Umrah in Ramadan is like performing Hajj in my company’’ (Abu Da’ud).

Many Muslims perform Umrah on last Friday of Ramadan Kareem. In each Ramadan thousands Muslims perform Umrah. Muslims search the laila-tu-Qadar in last night’s of Ramadan. Muslims spent these nights in worshiping Allah. They recite Quran. Muslims do special prayers in the last Ashra. Many Muslim sit in Itakaf in the start or mid of Last Ashra of Ramadan. And spent their time in worshiping Allah in loneliness. Many Muslims sit in Mosque for itkaf. .Every Muslim men and women are just busy in forgiveness of his/her sins. Also special Traveen prayers are held in Mosques and in homes for women. They just weep in front of Allah, beg for his blessing.  So that he will forgive their sins and show blessing. In short, last ten days the relationship of Allah and man becomes stronger.

After this holy month Allah almighty gives the gift of Eid to Muslims.  This shows Allah’s happiness and gift for his people. Eid day is also start of another blessing month Shawal. People gather for moon sight. Ecologist and religious scholars sit and tell that either moon is sighted or not. The hustle and bustle of people is seen in markets. Stalls of bangles and hina are witnessed in markets. Every Muslim is busy in Eid shopping. Day of Eid is arrived at last.  Eid is an Arabic word meaning "festivity," while Fiṭr means "original nature. This Eid is known as EID-UL-FITAR. Muslims started this day of happiness with offering prayers. Muslims offers their Eid prayers in different Mosques and places which is designated specially for offering Eid prayers. On the day of Eid Muslims gives specific money (fatrana) to poor people. They celebrate Eid with full enthusiasm.

Ramadan is blessing of Allah to his people. We should respect this month. While fasting we should follow its rules of patience mercy on poor people. And spend whole month with respect and consider Eid as gift. It should not be painful, worst day for poor people. May Allah almighty forgive all our sins and gives us right path.(Ameen).