I wonder!!!!!

I wonder how I stand where I stand. I named it sacrificed. You call a bitter pill to swallow. There’s so much to say and creates many confusions. Rest, I let you guys to decide. Unfolding, revealing confessing bad impact of system. I end up, black n white all experiences, societal norms, gender roles.  Gender roles defined, by society, women are responsible of home chores, on other hand men are bread winner.

Islam present same picture. Since, women are weak physically, hence, Men should be responsible of earning. I REPAET HERE, WORD “Responsible”, means take as duty, and fulfil it by hook and crook. For women, it’s flexible law. It’s not her duty. Rather to create confusion, should go-ahead.

Systems are made to make you comfort. Girls are supposed to leave her own parents house, as to make her own family. Here is beginning, of new family system. She has to deal with new ventures, get experience. After having babies, and when her children get in university, she somehow, considered experienced women. But wait, story is not net yet finished.  

Hit and trails, fighting and many others makes this simple life, even more complicated. Life is more smooth, if society realized, helping, caring, sharing and responsibilities are go side-by-side. Women supposed to do all chores, despite having babies, despite doing jobs. Because that’s what are taught by elders to children, and what family are trying to build. I am not denying the fact chores are responsibility of women.

TV commercials teaching children, Sharing is caring, and “Jaga do ge to jaga bane gi”.  

Lessons are taught but not practice. Eventually, Unstable society are born. TV commercials are trying to give positive picture unlike dramas. How to become better person, If Son helps his mother in chores, if Son do laundry with mother, if wife do job with husband, husband wear iron scorch shirt with sweater in office.

Joint system is entirely opposite to what it supposed to be.  On other hands, it mainly caused of un-happy family. Where you are bond to do all house-hold chores, without knowing the fact, it’s not responsibility of women. Joint- family system is inherited from Indian culture. Where women have to perform all house duties.  Where husband has to give salary to his mom. Islam is not what we trying to confuse with joint family system. Islam is very humbled religion. Even no religion in world to taught, to hurt yourself, just to please everyone. It’s a society that, decided what to do, what not do. No religion gives the back of this system.

Many gets offend, after reading half of this. My point is not to prompt neutral system and to leave parents. Point is to realize, to embrace the facts, which shouldn’t be part of society. Before marriage, me and my husband, decided that we buy everything on our own, and don’t become a burden on our family. But we end up, mendhi less function, but got stuff for my room only as Jehaz. Later, I confess, I will for sure, gift my daughter, at least what serve her room best.

Islam is what has practice by Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). To make it clear how to run life smooth. To marry widow, to marry not a good looking girl and many more. What we read in Quran is practice by him. Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) used to help his wives in daily chores, wash own clothes.

 "The best among you are those who behave best toward their wives. I am the best among you toward his wives. The best among you is the one who is the kindest to his wife and the worst among you is the one who treats his wife badly."

Nutshell, bearing old parents after marriage is responsibility of man. Same hand, single daughter can take her parents after marriage too.  Should prompt things which are beneficial of healthy society.  Healthy society, to give rights to wife, as it’s her designated right by Islam. No religion force women, she has to obey everyone except her own wish. No religion prompts to live life with husband’s brothers, as we many confused with women doing job with male and field.  Society never said, men also do same. Job is duty. I am not saying, men left all his relationships. It’s an opinion, to give space, I am repeating a word, “Space”, prompt separate portions, on same house. It demolished, morally wrong-doing, and provoke healthy society. Healthy mind develops.

Note: Based on random thoughts. No offense. J  

Sorrow and Relief

Somewhere in the world, you lose hope entirely, none here to cheer you up. No person no advice can cope the pain. You didn’t catharsis your pain, anywhere, in any form. Only you seek Allah to guide you for a better way out. Alas! All efforts and all struggles went in to vain. No one can understand, and felt a single pain why are you behaving and why are you in grief.

Life is journey, full of ups and down. No doubt, but the behavior of people makes this journey even worse. Sorry for keeping inducing negative vibes to readers. But every time, since I started writing, I always ended up with some positive note. Because eventually, we have to die and “To Allah We Belong, And To Him We Shall Return”

Life is so unpredictable, you can’t even felt current moment, and then change occurs. But the best thing: “Nothing lasts forever and bad thing is again “Nothing lasts forever” give it time and space. Room to adapt new things, room to swallow bad connotation.  But the worst and same hand best thing is, have patience  and be patient and change yourself. To sake of forgiveness and to get in peace. As Hazrat Ali quoted “happiest person is one who first to let it go”

To show your smile and happiness is a sign; nothing is worse than live with those whom you don’t want. Nutshell! I ended up I will cope my fears and sorrows, grief. And changed myself into better human being just for sake of Allah. I left all my rights just for Allah. I live for Allah, which gives me strength to live in a better way. Hope many of you can relate this. Jazak Allah

Azadi-line (leaders want respect)

Like many girls, I strive of wearing new and luxurious clothes, and cherry on top, if you’re getting them on sale. Likewise, I was strolling renowned brands for buying them, whilst, I came through beautiful green dress, with beautifully written urdu language on it. I instantly click on the image and back of shirt. I got impressed, but when I zoomed in, I realized there were few pictorial images on it. Like below, on above it was none other than, Quaid e Azam, with music Queen, Madam Noor Jahan and right side it was Allama Iqbal. I got emotional, and left the idea of buying. I commented on Sana Safinaz Page, and few hours ago, I got reply. It could be worn on front side too. Anyway, I replied, and our conversation end, but my emotions won’t let me stop.

https://www.sanasafinaz.com/with-love-pakistan

 Here I began to register my complaint. I post shirt picture (after cropping model) on famous Islamabad Salon & Fashion Forum.

Pictorial of leaders are used as symbol of affection and patriotism. Designer and people wear leader’s pictures on their shirts for showing solidarity. Few years back, Photo of Turkey leader got famous while taking out of his country flag from floor and placing on pocket. Once, we celebrated Independence Day, with a message to take a care of all flags, and placed all after Independence Day with care. And special message of don’t throw flags on floor because happiness is useless without respect.

The whole story, that I was trying to build here is, national days depict world how the nation is, unfortunately, only India staple us as nation. Current azadi-line of brand Sana Safinaz made many to think, how we present our leaders, specially our founder of country. Back of Shirt or slit of shirt, more specific, pasted the photo of Quaid e Azam, on right side, and Allama Iqbal on left side, with center full of famous ladies. This is highly disgraceful, how one illustrate leader of a nation. No doubt, brand post same shirt on front side too, but how come one could justified.

Is this a personal matter of one brand or company, why no rules, applied for blind industry, nudity has part of fashion industry, but committing, irresponsible attitude towards country.

Nutshell, this is too ungraceful and keep justify unethical ways. It’s become our national dilemma, who talked right, considered mad. Sadly, government succeed in making cyber-crime bill, but still we are living in the era of stone-age, where luxurious clothes are more valuable than words. How do we expect good nation, when we failed to respect our leaders and learn lesson from history.

Every Independence Day remains incomplete, when we fails to protect our children from kidnapping, when we fails to share history of Pakistan to our children without books, when pictorial image of leaders wont post on slits or back of shirts. It should be posted on the chest with pride of badges. Sorry we need to take a break and think, where we are heading to. 

NON profit in Pakistan!

Recently two incidents of rape were occurred in twin cities schools. Twin cities, are considered slightly more educated and aware in terms of social issues. Daily many cases of rape, violence have occurred, but due to un-accountability and lawlessness in institutions many have gone unnoticed.  Unawareness of issues and how to cope with diseases and disasters have a form of poverty too.  Having money or being financially strong doesn’t make anyone rich, when they don’t know to use money properly. Ratio of drop out children from schools belongs to those families, where fathers are doing nothing or doing labor in abroad.  Mostly, are unaware of the importance of education and proper usage of money.  Whilst, uneducated mass has vulnerable to infection and diseases. These all relate to development of person or society; also known as social development.

Being a developing country, unluckily political parties consider change would occur through instant development; roads, bridges or any other cosmetic projects. Meanwhile, education or any other issue have lost somewhere.  If you see many hospitals or schools was built by charity organization or usually name after the political person.  No or less development has seen in remote and slums areas. Rather to provide basic provision, government or local authorities declared them red zone areas or illegal. Therefore, many of these residents have gone backward.  Like this, many urban areas, where people are not aware of their rights and duties, are highly prone to abuse of any type.

Likewise, many started the raising awareness on their own.  These are those nonprofit organization, which have been working for the betterment of people of their own as CSOs and are collaborating with government in different projects too for perusing the efforts of social development. The point I was making here, there is always a need of third party who will work on their own for betterment of society and ensure social development.

Last night, largest child based organization; “Save the children” were ordered to close the business in Pakistan, due to alleged of anti- state activities. And over night, they have made thousands Pakistani civilians unemployed.  All of a sudden, it changed the fate of many, non- profit sector immensely effected by this. People started updating various statuses showing their anger, many tweeting projects and videos of victim NGO.  Many opposing nonprofit organization entirely.

 No doubt, it was a great move by current government, who ordered to leave INGO working in Pakistan for over 30 years, on the involvement in anti -state activities.  We are those hypocrites, who scream out for extremism and terrorism, if they need our sacrifice, then no welcome note.  Moreover, government is lining up few more NGOs, in suspicions of back of US, Israel and India. My question is, if they had been working for anti-Pakistan forces, why no action took placed earlier?  Why after 30 years? Why actions weren't shouldn’t take yearly?

We need to understand, this action was taken for the betterment of country. No personal involvement and interest wasn't witnessed. But taking care of 2000 unemployed civilians are surely country and government's responsibility. One cannot ignore this, as another case of downsizing. Let me explain, it’s not a downsizing of just employees like banks, it’s a loss of thousands children and families who were getting support from this alleged anti-state activities INGO. They made schools, educate children and empower their parents and also gave them livelihood training to those remote and slum areas, which government totally forgot about and never considered part of country. If you don’t help, these vulnerable children and families then one doesn’t have right to cancel the license or sealed their businesses.

 In nutshell, provision of basic needs is a big responsibility of government rather to made luxurious roads and buses. Yearly audit of every organization should be made. Foreign funded agenda channels should also be banned. Government should take responsibility of all their schools and provide assistance to all children in remote areas. No nation could reach their full boom, when their coming generation was suffering for basic needs. Aftermaths of this decision, government is equally responsibility of all the consequences.

Credibility of News!

Credibility of news are lost somewhere. Nobody bothers, what impact it leaves on the audience and not even the audience bother, to search it by themselves. Causal news, get hype and serious issues become scandal.  This is, what is been going on with Axact: IT Company issue, which is suspicious of selling fake degrees in world through black-mailing.  Ironically, world famous newspaper, named, “New York Times”, disclosed, Axact business. According to NYT, they properly investigated this news, after recruiting one of their employee in Axact. Hence, they got access to all important documents and made a detailed report.  Based on this, Interior minister Nisar Ali Khan, has ordered to investigate this case.

News become gossip in no time. Rarely in Pakistan get the credibility of news ever questioned. If ever so, the reply would be, “I read it from a foreign news channel”.  Life of media is also full of ambiguities; they make their own fantasy world. They illustrate what they want to depict.  

Local actors, who step in Bollywood, are automatically declared nation pride, and who throw event internationally considered proud moment. Actors become a think tank, people started quoting their tweets. Political leaders, have started running universities, after their name.  Historical leaders, became replaced with political leaders, in syllabus. People getting things without efforts. People are clearly losing their originality.  

You hardly read and hear about cyber -crime, until and unless somebody hacks your account. We only heard about PEMRA, who take action when something seriously blows out. Credibility of institutions, are no longer available. Hereby, each and every one make their right to, publish and telecast, handy information. We do note the audit of nonprofit organization but we hardly witness the audit of channels. Surely, some audit is required for issuing license.   But afterwards, no one bothers to audit.  No yearly audit has taken place of channels and newspapers.  All of sudden, how are you seeing hundreds of channels on your TV?  What business they were doing in past.

The point to note here is how we could rely on any international report without proper authentication. Why there is no international law for publicly disclosing other country news, without permission. Journalism is profession, who owed to provide information and knowledge. I am shocked, how journalism has changed to FIR

 No doubt, in globalization era, media has played greater role in shaping public opinion and making political decision. But in a nutshell, a lot of unpacking is required on the Axact story. Until then, we need to hold our horses, and need to break the chain of tweeting, posting unauthentic news for fun. May be, we are becoming a non-credible nation. We need to raise credibility of news and question ourselves that how we are declaring artists and political leaders as our historical heroes.  

For Five reasons, why I like Khaadi :

Khaadi is a Pakistani multinational luxury fashion brand , that was founded way back in 1998 by Shamoon Sultan.  Khaadi has an honor of achieving “Lux Style Award”  since 2002 till 2014 in different fashion categories. Khaadi has commonly known as famous hand woven cloth of Pakistan. But first time in history of Pakistan , someone has came up the idea of fusion. That successfully amazed customers.  Now a days, it has become bestselling brand of Pakistan in loose fabric.

 Many of you must be thinking that it was successful because of women. As per nature, women are highly vulnerable in case of shopping.  Anyone can amaze women with little efforts of design colors. This is partially true.

 Here I am going to share five reasons why every single woman prefers Khaadi’s fabric  .

1. Economical or in your budget: yes it is. Initially, they came with a limited catalogue (women stitched & loose fabric), due to this, only limited number of customers afford them.  After its popularity, it gone famous to everyone. Customers started approaching them.  Certainly,“Khaadi “ introducing their expertise in different field. And introduced, men children stitched cloths too.

With the variety of catalogue, “Khaadi” designers gave more dresses in economical range. Now anyone, can buy embroidered cloths in very economical range. For customers , especially women , it was dream come true.  Winters were supposed to be wear dull cloths but Khaadi entirely changed the trend.  Now one can easily buy good designer loose fabric in less than 2,000. You can, even get loose shirt or dupatta of any embroidery suit easily.   These can easily wear with white pajamas or chaffon Dupttas.  Khaadi has also given the option of stitched clothes of same loose suits.

2. Colors or design:

Khaadi who came with contemporary designs with fusion of hand woven cloths. Even original hand woven embroidery has easily available on Khaadi stores. Some cloths are too fabulous, even me and my mother bought same designed suits in different colors. Their cambric collection, winter, summer all garbed our heart to their stores.  

3. Fabric.

Khaadi has offered not only good design on economical range but also gives a comfortable fabric. Likewise, their colors are long-lasting and haven’t goes faded. Best thing, which I found in their cloths, they never spoils your iron.  No matter how much you go washroom. I blindly wear khaadi because it always gives soothing effects that dress supposes to be.

4. Brand:

Yes ! We all have fever of brand. This is the only economical brand, where you can shop, with gusto, rather to rely on its’ replica’s. 

Many shopkeepers, make you fool and sell Khaadi replica’s expensive than its original price. Mostly, whole family can easily shop from khaadi.

5. On-line shopping:

The best thing, I ever found in any clothing store, has its e shopping.  Others are offered too, but sadly, they presented it so badly, projecting eastern cloths like western, and western like eastern style. If model wearing shirt, it would be hidden with jewelry. Customers have gone confused. Sometimes, they buy what they don’t actually want to.   

khaadi who introduced system about how to present it loose fabric. You can get, deep post-partum of any dress before buying.   Best thing is khaadi offers dresses with free shipment. Online chat guide is also available on website.

Khaadi ‘s new ventures are Khaadi Khas (formal wear)  and Khaadi home are not as successful as other catalogue. Most probably, price range is a bit higher and not worth buying designs.  Although there were numerous reasons to buy Khaadi  but still some reasons one could reject this brand.

 1:  Quality of fabric is not equal: sometimes  suits that are less than 2,000 are not same fabric  of expensive ones.

2:  Repetition in designs: sometimes, Khaadi designers are hell confused, make usually all dresses even with same designs even winter designs ae copied to summer or summer copied to winter.  Numerous times, you get the feeling might be you’re wearing cut pieces of bed sheets.  

3:  Designs are no longer: it was blessing in disguise. When new vendors unable to meet desired needs of customers. And all suits, sold out within 3 months. No other, design or fabric will come before the date. Earlier, we never saw, shops were empty because of no suits.

4:  Stitched dresses of loose fabric have mostly of same designs. Other stitched ones,  are bit expensive you can’t afford them until  it’s sale .  If you’re buying any duptta or stole , ensure pieces are not damaged.   

In short, Khaadi, no doubt presents valuable stuff with different colors. No one can afford ,brand in Pakistan, earlier, especially in high inflation rate.  Khaadi has setting new example for all new or even settled brands; people only buy those, who come in their affordability.  If they offer good designs, then people shall follow them.  We should , appreciate, Khaadi’s  efforts, despite repetition in designs, they still managed high profile in fashion industry. Khaadi is brand, for common woman, who want to wear different, and look beautiful.  Thanks for making common woman special.  Who actually save money to buy good dress. I suggested you to don’t buy replicas of Khaadi .  

 

Molvism:

Please miss cover your hair with duptta( that was unintentionally gone slipped from hair) I’m getting angry, I can do anything.  My Qari shab told me it is Gunna. Abruptly many other following these words for me. These were the words of 12-14 year young boy, who was studying in non-formal community school established by one organization (where I was working).  His gestures made me little terrified. Might be it wasn’t expected.

Thirty years back when we permanently shifted to Islamabad and my parents send my younger siblings in nearby mosque for completing the Quran Sharf. But sadly, both came back with crying faces. Because qari shab used to punish students with football . After my father restrictions, they stopped throwing football (for only my siblings) as condition to cook evening tea for all clerics. Hence, after two weeks my sibling stopped going Mosque. They resumed recitation of Quran Sharf by a well-known Qari shab of our sector. (Who luckily didn’t beat)

Few months back, I came across news of taking action against all clerics (both suni & sheia clerics) who preach prejudice statement. And right after 2 weeks I saw banner written: according to courts instruction, our sector cleric would be arrest. This action was taken as precautionary measures for Muhram Chleum .

  In 2007, when Islamabad faced radical incident Lal Masjid . That left us with numerous questions .  Extremism is commonly known as behavior who try to impose his/her extreme thoughts (that usually based on emotion rather rational /fundamentalism).  A person who advocates or resorts to measures beyond the norm.

I’m sure you must gone through with this experienced as well. Recent carnage of Peshawar, refreshed all my experiences. And compelled to write some stuff.

Parents forced us to complete Quran sharf on our earliest. No matter who was teaching & what we perceived. Even some parents proud to share without beating how could a child learn better. The point I was trying to make here is, we modify our values or lost true teaching of Islam just for the revival of  fake societal norms.

 We totally forget basic philosophy of Quran & teaching of Prophet Sali Alhi Wahli Waslam (PB.U.H). Who still acknowledged in world for good behavior and justice. Based on this, many non-Muslims embraced Islam as religion. Sadly, today we embrace our prejudices & racism. Thus, world become place where respect attained on mutual thoughts.

Teacher who are first instructor of one’s life. Today, teachers of Islam, Molvi or Qari shab or clerics are hardly metric. They are proficient in Quran verses but failed to grab original idea of Islam, that’s why they failed to transfer in students. Hereafter, man started judging other’s based on segregation that leads to hatred. (Here seed of hate sowed in society) .This can be see in killing of many innocent

Hadith: "By Him in Whose Hand is my life, a time will come when the murderer will not know why he has committed the murder, and the victim will not know why he has been killed." [Sahih Muslim] 

 Fanatic started observing others on bases of own cultivated values. And restrict others to follow as it is. The matter of fact is, we totally forget the true meaning of Islam and started relaying on those who hardly know learning. Ironically, all those behavior comes from those who commonly known as Islamic institute or cleric.

  It’s not restricted to less educated it may come from educated cream of professionals too. What’s your religion if Muslim then specify your sect? This experience I got from renewed International organization recruitment form. Many other forced female employee to cover head as name of Islam.

All are form of extremism or apologists of modern era. Who sadly, highly educated but less to embrace why segregation why prejudice when our Prophet Salallah o ilhali Waslim (P.B.U.H)  stood in respect of Christian dead body and offered prayers in courtyard of Church.  Who always put smile no matter how crucial situation were. Who had followers of Black guy who later embrace Islam because sadly suffered ill behavior of his own group.

Now situation is getting worst even Muslim starting facing more ill behavior from same religion fellow in name of Islam. Extremist is not only TTP also many others who forced others to judge on specific sects. Who teach Islam is only restricted to Haqol Abab. Allah always said, I forget my rights but not human rights.

This situation prevail air of hate & evil. Radical or extremist behavior need to be abolished.  In nutshell, Islam is religion of peace where there is no place of any extremist act or whatsoever.

There is greater need to put focus on all Islamic clerics who should have master’s degree . Emergency ban on all madrass nationwide. There should be stick punishment for all who tries to impose his values on others in name of Islam. All mosques should be closed in day time. Clerics restrict to do part time job . Radical or infringed behavior is not easy to remove but not impossible. Lesson of Goodwill should be taught and appreciated during Quran’s Teaching. Extremist material or wall chalking should be banned.

And sum up of all, stabilize economy or job opportunity can lessen these. There should be punishment for everyone without discrimination.  In end, you can demotivate all factors that lead to societal or sects division. Say no to all who forced to fill sect’s column. Because your little initiative may discourage future radical or TTP act. It all need collective action.

Condemnable Behavior .

Since childhood I am listening, this statement ,” PM , President & other political powers  has strongly condemn brutal incident of terrorism “.   Nation is united against terrorism.  They won’t be hurdle in our activities”. Meanwhile, TV channels has been broadcasting incident from every angle. After 1 month, if I am not exaggerating time period, all outcry buried in files. It can make sense when you have to show your auditors. Other you need some proof because you been busy in other plans i.e. going aboard for shopping or daily medical checkups.  Terrorism has became Pakistan’s fate since Zia Ul Haq’s regime.

Contrarily, it attacks us with different forms, i.e. suicide attacks, Ra agent or Talibian & so on.   It inherits anger & revenge.  This is how; cycle of revenge goes on.  But who is responsible of this? Who can put check & balance over this action?

Obviously who have a power & can implement  laws. It’s been a ritual of blogger to write on every issue that going around you. But for Pakistan all problems becomes public issues. And all ends up, with one reason, negligent behavior or ownership issue of those having power.

We put efforts on casting vote & defending our political leaders on social media. But only few raise voice as a neutral & they alleged of secularism. Pakistan is a prosperous country by name, no doubt, we are having unlimited resources to make it flourish all around the world. Rules were made in the beginnings that are known as constitution.  Many amendments were also formed for making them more effective.

 Hereby, every political leader tried to run governance system according to their will. Suddenly martial law was imposed. They work as strict business. In the end, all paid off on some rebellion blood. But eventually, all system ran smoothly.  If Army is only organized entity of Pakistan.  Then why not martial law. ???

Nevertheless, we need to get some reality checks of Pakistan too.  Recent bomb blast of “Wagah –Border “in holy month of Muhram.  Immediately, news channels had started flashing the messages of sympathy from PM to all political parties.  Yet again, we all faced irritating police check post after every 15 miles. If situation become more adverse, you don’t get signals on your cell. Because it’s all for your security, otherwise don’t criticize.  Word “Power” is probably orientated from Latin. Commonly define as; Power is to influence or to rule others. Means “Power” is more of action.  Millionaires &  Politicians are commonly considered powerful in any country.  They have power to take action.  No doubt, power is gift of Allah, only few are blessed with this.

Unlike other countries, Political parties (most powerful) in Pakistan, treat power as taking orders & showing sympathy.   Power is about taking action in real.  Whether it is useful or dreadful  . Power is all about making alive governance system or justify the rule of authority.  Iran who took action against “A British-Iranian woman detained in Iran after trying to watch a men's volleyball match has been sentenced to a year in prison”. It’s an example of power.  Where action has made. 

All I am trying to make here, discourse “condemnation” in sense of Pakistani politics. Dismally, in our country, Politician assumes power is all showing pettiness or using disgraceful words for NATION.

They do nothing accept few action that truly in their favor. Like conflict of higher post will be solved in days but not the bloodshed. (Rather accusing or blame game started.) It is not fall under power of politics. That automatically, leads to failure of governance system. That we proudly achieve earlier.   

In short, Word Condemnation is not made for those who have power. You can do this, whilst having bed time coffee or tea via twitter too. And you probably show up on annual dinners.  Because nothing is decreasing except human.

 Sadly, it becomes habit; behavior of all political powers is highly condemnable. Humiliating or disgraceful behavior atomically give birth to salve or inferior nation.   It’s a great need to work on behavior of all political powers.  They courageously declare nation is united for more blood.

 Moreover, don’t feel ashamed, accusing nation, if they comes on road against their will. Probably you’re follower of extremist or somebody misguided you.  But never take emergency actions except agitating nation.  Sorry we strongly condemn your “coward behavior” .  We no longer tolerate.  Definitely, their behavior is only bone of contention in our country’s progress.  

Don't forget Power is a gift from Allah. It will take no time to reverse this gift in curse.

Disney Khoobsurat

  Most anticipating movie is finally released with full boom. Fawad jo “nam he kafi hai “ is  the biggest reason that  drag you to watch this movie. So I did also. Like many, earlier,  I was least interested in the movie. Especially after saw the changed look of Fawad khan. But  fb statuses that compelled me to watch the movie. And I was hell depressed already.  So what would be a great option?
Thankfully my brother had already downloaded it for me. I started watching the movie. Movie started with match of IPL & Sonam Kapoor was treating one cricketer. On other hand, her colleague was requesting to treat his patient in his homes. So she did. She arrived that house & yes patient was none other than hero’s father.
Sonam as Mili who was young beautiful , perky orthopedic doctor. That loved to capture every moment  without the tension of bfs or marriage. She was born in middle class small Punjabi family.  She had only one younger brother.
And our own heartthrob hero whose history begins from Dastaan .  But who knows one day Anil Kapoor had chosen him as son n law. Obviously  for Sonam kapoor Indian most stylish actor. And who knows she become a doctor in Fawad Khan’s love. Aur who bi “orthopedic”.  In this case, who else will treat Fawad’s father better than Sonam I mean Mili.  Confused it’s good if you still haven’t watch it “khoobusart”.

You lost your loved ones & couldn’t forgive yourself for those acts that you didn’t do. Somewhere or some extent your heart wished one day everything will gone perfect. Yes I was talking about story-line. Old & most probably copied of any Pakistani Drama. One perky, giggle, unapologetically silly girl want to beat everything with laugh. When creativity is not possible then renovation would be perfect idea. Thats what Kapoor production did. They act too intelligently & resembled this conventional story with Disney.  Title goes like “Disney Khoobusrat”.  He hired new face that truly fitted in this.

Third most curious thing is, Fawad has lost his weight just for this film man! Because here he has to represent “ Royal family” obedient son. Yuvraj Vikram Singh Rathore (Fawad) royal Prince cum Mandaq confidently performed every scene in typical Royal costume.

Mili funky dressed up doctor started living in Royal family as a Doctor.  Who called everyone with nicknames especially MEKO .  And yes, won the heart of everyone in house except going to be “mother n law “as usual.

  Anyhow, Actors dragged the story till end. Beautiful combination of songs (“ Seti “ & “Nana” ) that truly add specie in it. And eventually, succeeded enough in grabbing viewer’s attention. As far as acting has concerned all are trying to give the best of they can. Ironically ,  both Indo-Pak writers gave the biased review. Rather to discuss movie they objected Sonam & Fawad.  Though Sonam is good in fashion but we were bearing her poor Acting & Fawad who is not eye catching from any side. It is good try but could be more good if Sonam or Fawad wasn’t in the movie.

Nutshell, Indian trying to illustrate the culture, of “empowered women”.  Mostly heroines seen in Doctor’s role like “Yeh Jawani hai Dewani “ Or ” Kick”. Nevertheless, movie was good effort from Kapoor production.  There is always a room for betterment. Khoobsurat  that truly depicted the picture of Disney royal love.  How come it could be possible without shooting on new fresh faces. That won the hearts of many who loved to watch light movie. Both (Fawad & Sonam ) are fresh for big screen.  It ‘s my advice to all , take it as another opportunity for laugh out louds on silly stupid actions. For rating I will rate it 6.5/10 & music 7/10. Now it’s your turn & make your own rating best of luck J

 The new one stars Sonam Kapoor & Fawad Khan, it is directed by Shashanka Ghosh and produced by Rhea Kapoor, Anil Kapoor & Siddharth Roy Kapoor.

Khoobsurat Original soundtrack album has six songs from which four has music by Sneha Khanwalkar.

Making of Naya Pakistan

Justice comes under the doors of good governance.

Fatima Jinnah sister of founder of Pakistan was defeated in 1960’s election by Gen. Ayub Khan due to rigging.

Since the birth of Pakistan, every politician wants to make their own Naya Pakistan. They faithfully build  Naya Pakistan on sake of snubbing others.  Pakistan has been facing many political upheavals that hollow her from inside. Musshraf regime’s was a paradigm shift in political upheavals. No doubt, it left its harsh foot prints. But as compare to other martial law, it came with total change. Right of choice has been prominent influential change to date. 

Meanwhile, Imran khan was getting hype .  But he didn’t got much popularity like today.   After martial law, assassination of Banzir Bhutto,  was proved to add fuel to this change of behavior. Time passes by; expectation for better Pakistan has escalated.  Politicians were doing their work with kept ignoring the ground realties.  On other hand, Imran khan came with the skills of tackling this changing behavior. So here he started cashing this change & expectations.

This change of behavior comes in early 20’s (2001-2008). Imran khan was the only one who play cards according to need. Like everyone, IK has never talked or worked for his own interest. After Mushraf ‘s regime, Mr.Zardari , representative of PPP, came in power to play his card.  PPP certainly tried to fulfill their slogan of “Roti,Kapra, Makaan” on sake of their share.

So what if there was Hazra community incident arose. So what many Hindu started migrating from interior Sindh due to ill behavior of PPP officials. They came with brilliant projects that directly related to empowering individuals  like Banzir income support program, National internship Program & many other’s.  Above all, tried their best to provide electricity in holy month Ramadan. However, finally after much hue & cry, PPP has cunningly completed 05 big years of democracy. It was big achievement of so called democracy.

However, election 2013 was proved as delirious. Especially for those youngsters, who  were going to inked first time in life.  Mr Nowaz & Mr. Kaptan playing their cards and trying to catch voters. Kaptaan who was playing  like fast blower, Shahid Afrdi if not.

 Difference was clear , PMLN talking about projects & PTI talking about justice & oppressor. So far leader playing their cards intelligently. Finally, intelligence has again beaten by cleverness & cheating. “Rigging” a perfect tool was being played by PMLN.  Again 5^th time, PMLN came to power for making his own Pakistan. PMLN has started doing their job as authoritarian .  Like every time , cosmetic project has remained their priority .   

Kaptaan has remained Kaptaan he started yelling on the win of rigging .  But PMLN kept running project as ignorance is a bliss.   After useless 14 months chanting for rights, Kaptaan decided to come on roads as peaceful march called Azadimarch .  

Meanwhile, PMLN’s goon culture leads them to height of insaneness. They assassinated 14 innocent people of PAT (Pakistan Awai Tareek) .  Keep in mind PAT is of Mr.Qadri who never feel shy to come on street with container & after this incident he also announced to come 14 August.

Lastly, Kaptaan & Qadri both came on D-Chowk . Different round of negotiation was being placed for solution but no use.  Meanwhile, protestor entered parliament areal/red-zone most sensitive area because our  politician told us. Another, horrible incident was being intervened . Many got injured & few gone dead as result of ceasefire.  Being a naïve of Islamabad, it was horrible night for us. Sadly, government has again showed cold shoulder over the incident.

  However, finally 01 month has passed. But no use. Rather government has sealed all roads via containers. Daily many youngsters are caught by police. Islamabad schools are being filed by Punjab police.  On other side, civil society has started protesting  &  many goes on hunger strike .  Many have started making fun of Dharna & people who attended this.  On top of it, trying to call Kaptaan as rigid stubborn. And Mr.Nawaz has received similar comments. People had started blaming to both parties for D-chowk incident.

The point, I am trying to build here, no doubt, revolution doesn’t attain easily .  When some are sitting in houses and only complaining on electric bills. And other watching Games of throne or Master chef Australia.  Yes usually revolution never comes too, when elite class boy came to attend the Jalsa and sexually abused by Policemen. When adults are being tortured by police because they are coming from Dharna. When flood ruined many villages when Eid Ul Adha is on way.  When young girls were being raped & victims proved innocent. When government officials killed many just for the sake of breaking the law of entering parliament.  Yes it never happened when person earning 8k and got 5k electricity bills.  Yes, what else we can expect from feudal minded PM.  It isn’t a revolution by book definition but still “some are trying to bring change”.

 Before going further it is good to know, every country have different past born with different circumstances . We couldn’t relate our present to another.  We are going through the hard battle of history once again, despite deny the actual facts how could we expect better. Now it’s about the time to think out of box. Many have a personal interest. But here we as a nation need to think wisely before leaping our actions. This is not just a matter of rigging or FIR of 14 killing. Its matter of cheating, being a ancestor of Hazrat Umer  , how could we tolerate wrong.

How could we expect quality education & better health facilities when the leaders are least interested to give.  It wasn’t  old story, when Sindh was being caught by man-made disaster as hunger drought . Many got died because of incapable corrupt government officials. Balochistan is one of the highly rich province of mineral resources but still couldn’t get Sui Gas. Every year , hundreds of  villages are drifted due to flood.

Cheating is embedded in our system that leads to corruption. Corruption never ever leads to betterment from any side. In end, think God forbidden if your loved one suddenly die due to blind firing or died because of drone attack then who will be blamed for this. Government or your loved ones. Same the situation, rises here, stop blaming those who stand for justice atleast they trying to change something. Otherwise, be prepared for many hazra community incidents , drones & many manmade disasters like flood. May be for civil war .

It’s a need, to go, and build your own experiences. Because it’s not war of ego . Go to Jalsa &  figure out yourself what is right or what is wrong. Stop seeing the world from other’s lens.  Your destination to Jalsa automatically become a history for your life. If not possible, read & figure out how corruption leads to bad governance. Because today someone is standing for us, with us for getting our rights. If cheater becomes our president so why shouldn’t we allow students to pass exams through cheating.

 In nutshell, system that comes from stolen the right of choice of other’s how could they capable of giving basic rights.  This democracy wouldn’t be more than derail shape of it.

They think to beguile Allah and those who believe, and they beguile none save themselves; but they perceive not

Al-Baqara - 2:9

Hurrem in Pakistan

Beauty is eternity gazing at itself in a mirror

Beauty is always appreciated; moreover, smile on lips in front of enemies enriches the charm. This is what we call in casual words “inner beauty or pure soul”

Hürrem sultan Roxelana came to Pakistan since the start of this year. Initially she failed to get the attention. But soon her eye-catching dance and Nagar Khatoon’s advices allured the King’s heart.

 Turkey to Pakistan, all and sundry, started following her what next is going to happen to her? And how she successfully retained her attitude and beauty .But one day, after she became mother of two, she was deported. 

But she didn’t let herself down she kept trying and finally she got the secret coming inn again. Now she came with new weapon; weapon of smile.

Her new look left others in jeopardy .No one is a competitor of her in Pakistan.  She is the only “confident beauty pageant” not only in Turkey but in Pakistan .Her wardrobe, jewelry her freshly done manicure her 5.7” height justified public’s madness towards her.  

Her fairness get more fairer with her fame .Now she became a mother of five but her beauty and attitude still remains .

Her million dollars smile her cute crying face her yelling naughtiness made her official wife of 10^th king of Ottoman Empire Sultan Sulemian .She was getting older but her beauty Pakistani people mad .She clearly knows how to win the  heart but one day unfortunately , one maid became  dear to king.

Still story goes on. We all know Hurem never stepped  back .Actually she compelled many to stood back .However, this is real Queen’s story ,wife of Sultan Suleiman .

Many rumors surrounded that the downfall of 10^th king ottoman empire END’s  with Ibhram pasha’s death .

Hurrem wanted the downfall of Ibhraim Pasha (because he killed her first lover).

Story revolves around the beauty Queen “Hurrem” how he came to palace and how she struggled for getting king’s heart. 

This is  Story of Hurem and pasha rivalry. Revenge of her first lover, anyhow, historical beauty pageant in reality becomes the queen of Pakistani heart. Because they clearly know Pakistani Turkish Friendship is obligatory for us. Thanks Hurrem we love u

                                                                                                                                                                            

Abya and Sleeveless new uniform:

Last week I received interview call from my own sector school. But I rejected the job specifically the condition of abya and veil that was mandatory for teachers (especially in front of school director). After this, many things started popping in my mind.

This becomes the story of every school. So I decided to lets’ discourse the western vs eastern uniform for teachers.

Two years back, my elder sis wasn’t feeling well due to bad fever she covered her head before entering the class. And suddenly she received a comment, ma’m you are not looking good (because of duptta). One of friend has gone before for the demo of teacher, she received the advice to become stylish.

 Hey wait a second what’s this. I am unable to grab this. Our opposition leader Mr. Imran khan’s famous slogan is: educational system should be equal.

 One mode of language should be imposed. But here, uniform becomes a dilemma. Here language is same (English) but followers of different school of thought. Both are practicing extreme behavior. One is follower of extreme religious and other is follower of extreme western culture.

I recalled one statement of my mum’s colleague’s daughter; “new teacher is not good; her heels are cracked”. I know it’s a psyche of kinder-garden or1-3^rd grade student. They are attracted towards colorful things. Kids are the mirrors of their teachers. If teacher speaks loudly so as the children do. But this environment makes me confused what school should I choose for my future children. One is preaching extreme religious behavior and one is opposite. May be I am accused of sin if I don’t send my child to abya school or send to sleeveless teacher.

What should I supposed to do? These thoughts are boiling my mind am I disobeying my religion? On the other hand, I also feel hesitated to go outside without duptta. Whether it is private school or madrassa everyone is inducing their thoughts.

These perceptions shaping split personalities in one society. Not only this having the fear of hatred material teaching in classes. Unfortunately, private schools teachers are less educated even BA English failed also teaching there. So-called good standard schools terminate their teachers for modifying things. However, poor economy has compelled teachers to obey supervisors.

 All of above, I am trying to depicting the picture of hallow society.

Now physical appearance becomes more than inner values. Government of Pakistan living in fool’s paradise where Taliban is a bigger issue. Actually unequal educational institute opening the room for talibanization. In short, moderation is best policy of everything like Islam said to us.