Blessing of last Ashra of Ramadan and greetings of Eid.

 "Oh ye who believe! Fasting is prescribed to you as it was prescribed to those before you, that ye may (learn) self-restraint..." Quran II: 183

Ramadan is holy month for Muslims. This holy month celebrated with full enthusiasm and respect. In this month Muslims fast and worship Allah. Muslims of whole world desperately wait for this holy month. This is special token for earning swab.  In this month Muslims get double swab on single good deed. The Holy PROPHET (S.A.W.W) said: ‘it (Ramadan) is the month, whose beginning is Mercy, its middle is Forgiveness & its end is Emancipation from the fire’- Bihar.alanwar, Volume: 93, Page No. 342. First two Ashra’s are gone. Now 5 fast of third Ashra’s are left.  Every Ashra has its importance and specific blessings. But the third Ashra is superior to first two. There are lots of things associated with this last Ashra. First one its importance of emancipation from hellfire. Second Allah send Holy book Quran to Muslims in this last Ashra. Allah said to Muslims search the night in which he send Quran . Laila-tu-Qadar and Itakaf is also associated with this third Ashra.

 The last Friday of Ramadan is marked around the world as Yaum al Quds. On the last Friday Muslims offer Friday prayers in a very large number. And say goodbye to Ramadan in very obliged manner.

The Holy Prophet (S.A.W.W) said;

                         ‘’ To perform Umrah in Ramadan is like performing Hajj in my company’’ (Abu Da’ud).

Many Muslims perform Umrah on last Friday of Ramadan Kareem. In each Ramadan thousands Muslims perform Umrah. Muslims search the laila-tu-Qadar in last night’s of Ramadan. Muslims spent these nights in worshiping Allah. They recite Quran. Muslims do special prayers in the last Ashra. Many Muslim sit in Itakaf in the start or mid of Last Ashra of Ramadan. And spent their time in worshiping Allah in loneliness. Many Muslims sit in Mosque for itkaf. .Every Muslim men and women are just busy in forgiveness of his/her sins. Also special Traveen prayers are held in Mosques and in homes for women. They just weep in front of Allah, beg for his blessing.  So that he will forgive their sins and show blessing. In short, last ten days the relationship of Allah and man becomes stronger.

After this holy month Allah almighty gives the gift of Eid to Muslims.  This shows Allah’s happiness and gift for his people. Eid day is also start of another blessing month Shawal. People gather for moon sight. Ecologist and religious scholars sit and tell that either moon is sighted or not. The hustle and bustle of people is seen in markets. Stalls of bangles and hina are witnessed in markets. Every Muslim is busy in Eid shopping. Day of Eid is arrived at last.  Eid is an Arabic word meaning "festivity," while Fiṭr means "original nature. This Eid is known as EID-UL-FITAR. Muslims started this day of happiness with offering prayers. Muslims offers their Eid prayers in different Mosques and places which is designated specially for offering Eid prayers. On the day of Eid Muslims gives specific money (fatrana) to poor people. They celebrate Eid with full enthusiasm.

Ramadan is blessing of Allah to his people. We should respect this month. While fasting we should follow its rules of patience mercy on poor people. And spend whole month with respect and consider Eid as gift. It should not be painful, worst day for poor people. May Allah almighty forgive all our sins and gives us right path.(Ameen).

Azizi is an apple of everyone's eye.

Here are few lines in tribute to Azizi. Till now I have not met anyone who says that he does not know Azizi . Pakistanis who live abroad also like him. He is very dear to us. He comes @11 pm on Thursday to Sunday. Everyone is eagerly waiting for his show. In the markets shopkeepers turn on their TV sets @ 11. No matter how many customers are there in their shops their eyes are only on TV. They enjoy Azizi’s innocence, funniest talking. Although every show tried their best in coping Azizi. But they are failed. His funny gestures make us laugh. His foolishness is also very dear to us. He is not very intelligent. But his innocent nature admires us a lot. He did mimicking of many known politician, cricketers, media stars and many other socially known people of our society. He do what others can’t he let makes us smile at the time of hopelessness. He portrays true feelings that we feel; what we feel when there is no light, when there is no employment. What’s our reaction towards high inflation? He also conveys our misery in his sweet voice to MR. Prime minister(MURSHAD PAK). Sometimes he also do interesting poetry .He also tells world although we are suffering from lots of problems but we still love Pakistan. His viewers are not limited to specific age group. Even a school going child is a big fan of him. In short, Azizi is genuine others are copied. And he is an apple of eye for all Pakistani people.

Holy of blood in Karachi and relaxing attitude of government.

Since the end of last yr 2010 the holy of blood playing in the city of Quaid Karachi. Karachi is a biggest city of Pakistan. Karachi is also called city of lights. But bad luck struck with city of lights. Everyday many people lost their lives in Karachi. Target killing is now common in Karachi. Everyday many dead bodies are found in many places. Natives of Karachi were roaming around at late hour. Natives of the Karachi were found walking at the beach. Although I didn’t get the experience of touring the Karachi. But I always admire the lights of biggest city and big palm trees. But for many yrs I only saw news of deaths.

Day by day the condition of the city is becoming worst and worst. Even bombs also attacked Karachi.  From the official source the 436 people killed on the first four months of yr 2011. The worst incident of target killing had happened in kharadar. In kharadar 36 hours 18 people lost their lives. Earlier only Peshawar and terrible areas faced such a horrible holy of blood. Now Karachi is no more saving from this.

I can feel the feelings of fear that the citizens of Karachi experiencing. How horrible the feeling of killing by an incident. Although some areas are saved. But there environment is like a mourning.  In 2005 when earthquake hits some areas of Pakistan. And Islamabad is one of them I know how the feeling of death makes man panic and even the minor shocks were seemed a big earthquake. And we siblings used to sleep in one room. At the time of Eid, we ran to our native town like other Islamabad citizen. Our stay in town helps us in healing our terror. And we felt like bird who can fly anywhere with no fear.  Although only specific areas are victim of this violence in Karachi, but the reaction can seen in whole Karachi.

I astonished the stubbornness of government. Almost every day MR. Malik visited the effected people of Karachi. But sill he said; we ill trying to overcome this problem. We will soon sort out this problem. This is not a big deal. What a shit? Excuse me. Tell me are you a human being. Are a puppet? You have heart/ feelings or not? Why you don’t listen the shouting of people. Oh I ‘forget you are just a puppet. You say what your lord I mean MR. President said.

It is foolishness for hoping to them. Actually they don’t want to solve the issue. They just want to diminish the people then it’s easy to cater little amount of people. On Saturday Mr. Malik said ‘there is no need to calling army they are busy on borders’’. We will soon sort out this problem when only few democratic and few cruel politician are left. When everywhere will peace no blood no shouting .Because then there  will no more people on which they let their anger (Allah ford bide)

Yesterday PTA’s chairman said I’ll overcome this situation and stop this brutality. He also acclaimed to stop this blood holy within 10 days. But Damn care what he says. Moreover how dare he is to say this. Who are you? Why you show so patriotism? Haan why you don’t put money and just chill. Our president is so much busy that he even doesn’t bother to speech to people and said don’t worry we will fight and kick out terrorist people from our beautiful Quiad city. This is time in which he should play a role like a father who wants to solve the problems. But sorry in government no one is here to healing our wounds. They even don’t want the presence of mediator party to sorting this problem.  If army comes then many ill annoy. So who will solve this issue? How many months you will need to sort out this problem? Please mercy on us.

In last, there is useless request for government. Please mercy on people of Pakistan. If you unable to solving this problem that you already know. So why don’t you include some mediator parties in solving this conflict. Your ego, your wishing list and your friends are not more than the respect and live  of Pakistan. So think on it. Revolution of Karachi is not so far.

Amir liaquat is fake or we are foolish ?

 Again the so-called Amir liaquat hussian became a hot issue. He is unable to prove himself innocent .Yesterday my younger brother told me about his YouTube videos, in which he used abused language .This was recording of break time. Also some of his videos of informal functions are present in YouTube.  But I can’t believe his saying. But when I saw his videos on Big brother Google I was shocked.  We don’t know his whereabouts. Earlier we heard news that his degree of doctorate was false. But he is unable to answer these questions. He was succeeding in gaining the trust of foolish people. He was doing religious program for G channel. There he faced lots of criticism. But who cares he was stubborn. Many people crictized his artificial smile and his full of embroidery blinking clothes. One or two yr ago, he switched to another channel A.  Here the format of his show remains the same

After leaking his abusive video he is trying to prove himself innocent. He said in his program these videos are full of dabbing and editing. Lots of questions rose on his character we say a lot of him. But what we get?  Nothing.  This is a time of realization if someone got the degree through unfair means how he is eligible of teaching masses. Why we go the fame of people. Why we don’t use our brains to differentiate between right or wrong. Why we get easily impressed from artificial world of media? Moreover of everything religion is very sensitive issue. We have to rely on just what we read ourselves in authentic books.

I don’t want to write much on what he did or what don’t. I just want to say everything is not what he seems. Try to educate ourselves and read religious books of well-known Islamic scholars. If still you will have any confusion about any issues and its relevance in Islam, just to rely on those scholars who are teaching in universities.  Those have known experience in educational field like Javed Ahmed Ghamdi and many others like him.   In nutshell, don't criticize people just catharsis ourselves. Because we made them famous.  And boycott all those scholars who don’t have any good academic experience.

Love and other disasters;

Shouting, screaming, scolding even beating is associated with the love disasters. Why you always doing sms, calls, net and balla balla. These words you probably heard from the mouth of your family. It may be period of your first crush. When you have experienced your first crush.  This is the period of teen. Many are experiencing the upheavals of early teen. Some forget this period with end of early teen .But love and its disaster cannot be associated to any of the stage, age of life. You can anytime fall in love and you can face its disasters.

In the twenties many youngsters fall in love.  You also heard this in love there is no boundary; you fall in love with anyone at anywhere. At once life has been changed, even the bitter words, worst weather and everything like a heaven.

“It’s easy to believe in magic when you’re young. Anything you couldn’t explain was magic then. It didn’t matter if it was science or a fairy tale. Electricity and elves were both infinity mysterious and equally possible _elves probably more so’’. Charles de Lint.

There are many types of disasters. But love disasters mostly man-made. World can’t understand this innocent emotion and the feelings of girl and boy. They only see the changes appear in lovers. Psychical beauty that automatically appears especially in girls. Lovers want extra space for themselves. In which they spent time with each other. They pay extra attention to enhancing their beauty. Their extra space, spare abnormal attitude of optimism cause of man-made disasters. So here the story of love and other disasters starts. 

Firstly they had a suspicion. Then they started investigating for searching the truth. By any means they want to know the truth. So they finally succeed in getting the truth. Parents, elder siblings started torching the lovers. And parents’ siblings restrict their life. Make rigid rules and regulation for lovers. No one thought appropriate to understand their feelings.

The guy or girl you are meeting is not good. He/she have a bad character. His/her companionship is harmful for you. We know the world better than you. You are kid. Even the lover is studying in university with doing job heard these words from everywhere. This is behavior of the parents, siblings lover had bear. But the lover is lover. And love is blind. Moreover if it is first love. No one can’t imagine the feelings of lover if though parents and siblings also experienced such feelings. But the ego nature, so called respect and name of society made them cruel.

Opponents of the lovers I mean the families also sometime interviewed them. Either he/she are capable of being loving or not. Mostly lovers were rejected.  If they passed the interview then the whole life becomes an examination hall for them.

Many newlywed couples, even old married couples can’t express their feelings as they want. After marriage n laws become a hurdle in the lovers. They feel hatred and jealousy with their happiness and above I mentioned. The man-made disaster doesn’t alone the lovers. These man-made disasters sometimes lead to suicide of the lover.

Lastly, just to understand other feelings don’t impose your rigid rules to others .life is very short. Love is very sweet feeling. No one have a reason to tell you why they love. So become neutral. Don’t make lovers rebellions.

Here is my favorite quotation; this is dedicated to all lovers

I was born when you kissed me.

I was died when you left me.

I lived a few weeks while you loved me.

Bridal dress obsession ;

Every girl is dreamed for a perfect wedding dress since she attained the age of maturity. Before taken the step  into a marriage life she wants this dream come true at any cost. she want to buy dress that should be different and beautiful from the others brides she have experienced.  Although the psych of girls are same despite the boundaries of everything. In western culture girls use to wear different white prom dresses but now they are skipping tradition to modern . Like other countries the situation is not seem different In Pakistan. Girls preferred on their great day. Because of its nature of color shows happiness, sparking and brightness. Now the situation is going different now thanks to media , magazines designers now girls have a vast choices about colors. But on the other hand , because of this the journey of simple red is not no more easy. When there is variety of things the choice of simple dress is gone complicated. And moreover this is wedding dress.

Bridal dress journey is different for different people. Some starts in different way or some only rely to their mothers, elder sisters or babhis for dress.  The story of bridal dress starts from your own brain and many don’t get the proper idea.  What to do or not to do. But before going in the complicated sad story and excited story of bridal shops. Here the questions rise in mind so what about the intelligent women who got the sketch of her perfect bridal dress. These women are highly motivated and want to buy her own design wedding dress. They are usually from the fashion studies or related studies. So they just go cloth market and buy appropriate fabric. And go to the master of bridal dresses and tell them how to design dress. But this story is not end here, master is just a master of bridal dresses he definitely left something that needs your help. But the story of these kind of bridal dresses and ladies are exhausted.

Lets talk about the usual and much expensive bridal dress that  is creation of common mind. So for searching perfect dress women starts roaming from one shop to another. She only reserve 5-10 days for reviewing the shops and dresses. And after 5-10 days they finally decided what type of dress they get from where. Then they go the privileged shop for perfect dress and take a order for dress and some of them cut the embroidery according to their wish. After the tailoring mistakes she finally get the antic piece.

But the story of bridal dress is not completed. But what about the rest who still like mine not satisfy with any of the shops (non- designers) . what they do ? they cancel their wedding or comprise for wearing a simple less worthy dress ? nooooo wayyyyy.  Then they go in the trauma of bridal dress but before going in to more severe depression or anxiety name of ‘’Designers dress’’ flash in their mind.  All depression and anxiety gone into happiness, they take phone and start msging or calling her friends about the numbers and addresses of designers. They finally they take a step in to the air-conditioned, more eve catching shop than non designers. The tailor oh I mean modern tailor so called known designers take a copy and pencil and ask her requirements. And make a sketch and then the dress atlast get the approval. Because dress making from the most desirable shop more over from the hands of designer so bride get the chance of try her dress before the final stitching. So the bride satisfy and wedding dress get the owner of wearing.

But what about the women who don’t afford dresses from expensive and designer wear or even don’t have much money for getting bridal magazines.  Are they remain unmarried or wear  daily wearing clothes with red duptta? They are poor but that doesn’t mean they have no dreams . so what these ladies do. They go to the cheaper shops and tell her requirements and make a perfect dress. But some of them they even had not much money to buy or order new dress even from cheaper shops. They usually buy second hand dresses of the brides who sale their dresses after their wedding. Some of them get the dresses from the rent house wear and pay money and return back.

So we meet all type of dresses that sales in market for different tastes and economical people. Human is  that type of creature sthat fully welcome every new stage of life either is school, college, university ,job or marriage etc. In every phase wants everything new but it depends on the environment where he/she lives. Some wear or use things of their elder siblings or sometimes even their elder cousins.  Interestingly, everything gone opposite when the time of marriage comes everyone wants to wear her own choice suit. Everyone get the dress according to their economical condition. Moreover elite class bride don’t comprise on anything and even buy highly luxurious dress that she wore only once. But we can’t restrict this only to elite bride every class bride wear dress only on that day for the dress is made. Everything counts good ethical after all it is her perfect day. In short, dress should be what you easily carry without the help of others, also in western weddings bridesmaid  carrying the dress of the bride. So please its modern world come out of this sort of extra cloths that only cause of more money for shopkeepers. Buy dress that you should carry out by yourself, also in which people seen you clearly.(not exhibiting of any cloth shop )

 Should be not too much expensive like millions (lakh) . Whatever the reason designers make dresses only for highly elite class not for common people. Make your own mind creation dopt via net ,magazines. But if u have more money simply go your desire shop or designer. In the last whatever the dress either expensive, middle range or second hand this shouldn’t be complete without you. Dress is just fabric is nothing worth unless you wear it. So your satisfaction and happiness towards your marriage is more important than dress. Also every smiley face makes dress perfect either it’s her wedding or causal dress.

Say no to more provinces; please Mr. President ask us what we want.

There is a famous folktale. Once were three king friends who were also neighbor .one day they decided to hold a competition. In which judges tell whose country was best. So the day of competition came. Everyone prepared a lot. When judges visited first country they saw big buildings, big airports, big shopping malls they impressed a lot with their development. They decided to gave this king best king of them. But this was a competition, so they visited second king`s country. This was very clean, beautiful, everywhere is flowers, and there was no dirt. Judges were more impressed than previous one. But the last king’s country was left. When they visited, they saw streets are full of people. People came on streets for welcoming. They welcomed them cheerfully. They showered flower petals on them. They were so happy. No one was sad in this country. So judges announced third king was best. Because they take care of their people than two. Happiness of the people is more important.

14^th August, 2011 Pakistan celebrating her 67 yrs of independence. With the preparation of the celebration we will prepare gift for birthday person. But in Pakistan no one ever think what should we give to our beautiful country. Every year Pakistan only got the gift of problems. Last year, Pakistan suffered natural disaster flood. Due to this no one celebrates Independence Day as earlier. This year no natural disaster caught our dear country.  But many man-made disasters caught our country. These disaster made every person miserable. High inflation rate, bomb blasting, target killing, unemployment, corruption and many others. Recently another issue become a counterpart of assembly of Pakistan let to make more provinces. The parliament unable to provide basic necessities. So they take step of making more provinces.

No part and no person in country are happy with the current situation. Now our own voted parliamentarian started with Punjab to make new provinces. They sit in the centrally-conditioned rooms and sort out the solutions of poor people. They quarrel with each other every day .Then start the drama of how to make up. And this is how they running Pakistan. Now they themselves plan to make new provinces. No one feel the urge to ask Pakistani people they are agreeing to what we are going to do?

We don’t ask you Mr. President what you are collecting and how much is your wealth from taking oath to till now. We just want to request; please don’t make more provinces. We are happy in areas we are living in. Don’t create much fuss in country. We already suffered so many issues. We don’t have job, no electricity, our business is any more, even our lives are no more save. We don’t know if we go market we may back or not. We are no more uniting like at the time of independence.

There is no need to make more provinces. It only exuberate racial conflicts, territorial anger. It’s difficult to handle more provinces. We can bend to one province. Favoritism can prolong. We had bitter experience of this favoritism earlier. East Pakistan Bangladesh is one of our mistakes. So please do ask what we want. Don’t forget we vote you Mr. President. We can let you down. But we don’t want to hurt you.

Now this is crossing the limits of brutality. We are not happy with your current decision of making more provinces. Yesterday was 14^th August. Please mercy on the poor people of Pakistan we don’t have much money to send our children abroad for higher studies. Kindly solve what we suffering. Don’t create more issues for us.

We are happy for calling the nation of four provinces country. Punjab, Sindh , Baluchistan,   Khyber Pakhtunkhwa. If you want to change the condition of Pakistan with whole heartily then please eliminate feudalism, abolishes the cruelty of elite class who make salve weak masses. Eliminate brutality of society against women who make their own courts. And daily announced many woman woni, kara kari, many other become victim of these false norms. Why you don’t put on eye on these issues. Why in every regime weak people become a victim of these courts.

Why you don’t take notice of the high rate of unemployment. One and half year is left in completing this regime. Why you want that history writes ‘you never showed mercy on the people who were hardly living hand to mouth and were hoping your mercy`. Have you ever thought that how much how struggle was made for this state? And you are asking which province is taken first step in making more provinces.  

Yesterday was the Independence Day of Pakistan. Please try to realize happiness of people is more important than the buildings and other things. 

Old friend my poor sofa .

Recently I shifted to my new home. And my mother gave my old dear sofa to housekeeping maid. I saw him since I was born. Our relation (me and my sofa) was very deep . I consider it my lucky one like a lucky stone of people. My behavior was very superstitious towards him. Whenever I am tired I used to sleep on this sofa. Actually I like old traditional things than new ones. I’m very sentimental girl and I’m easily attached to things. So this is  how our love started.

When I m upset I jumped on it. I cried and after few minute I gone normal. So see how I’m deeply attached with my sofa. At the time of every  meal, my mother and my siblings always talked how to erase this dirty thing from our house. But I always raise voice and saved my sofa. When I get low marks in exams , fight with siblings and my defeat, parents scolding  every time no one with me except my dear sofa.

When my exams near I used to sit on my lucky sofa. And I passed exams. The other two parts of this sofa was earlier become the shine of my housemaid. So now you can imagine how pathetic condition of my ex-sofa was. But I believe true love don’t go on the physical appearance of lover. With the shifting of his two parts I completed my graduation. Now my myth was stronger. And my love to my sofa was more deepen.

The happiness of my graduation gone far me to my sofa.  But one day, after a long time when my mother talked about the throwing of my sofa. My suppressed feelings had been reappeared.  But this time my mother is quite serious about the decoration of the house. And she insisted to removal of the sofa. Now sofa was no more in the condition of sale. But this time, mother’s argument and her passion towards home decoration made me to change my decision. Everyone thinks this was stain that can’t be removed with anything. And the only solution of this is to put into garbage or give to housekeeping maid. So now I promised to my mom that you will give this to our housekeeping maid after my masters.

Again I saved my sofa. But this time, Alas, our accompany was very short. I am unable to save my sofa from the brutality of society. Now I entered to my new university for higher studies. Time was running so fast. In the busy life of university I forget my sofa. Now I completed my university. After few months, we shifted to our new house. And my mother gives my dear sofa to our housekeeping maid. When my sofa was gone I felt sad. And I am remembering my sweet old days with my sofa.

‘A real friend is one who walks in when in the rest of the world walks out`.

Attachment would be build with any object. Sometimes, your old furniture, old house become a strong part of your life. That you never wana lose. My feelings, attachment towards my sofa always remember me my struggle for life and his company . This presence always felt like a old friend to me, who knows everything about me. He accept me with all my faults and with me in every phase of my life. 

How to save your relationship;

Our forefathers think the advancement of technology makes our relations bad.  And now relationship has not the real taste as before. Build relations are now more rapidly broken than the earlier. Forefathers used to complaint the running net in young generation hands, on and on dating. But it makes our lives easy especially for those couples who can’t meet frequently. But it’s my personal experience if someone is really loves you or sincere you he/she can never betray you.  Either you don’t talk to him or even break up due to some issues.  Your partners always search you and proved his love.  In real love the daily communication, dating is not bother.  The story of Prince William and her dare princess Kate is also one of them.  But we can’t ignore the importance of these blessing in relationship.

Relationship often built on first attraction that girl and boy equally feel. Then sms, Skype etc and dating is started. Firstly boy flattered girl and wants the girl to be his own property. In this he tried to gain her trust and proved himself a true lover at any cost. Then the relationship grows at once. Because the girls psych is easy to handle. And boys easily grab the fish. When the girl shows equal importance boys  feel like a king. And happy to become a owner of a goat.  I feel very sorry while writing above words but this is a bitter reality. This is the psych of every man. They like to  attract women to themselves. But once the relationship is build then the depression is started. After into the relationship, mostly girls complaint about their partner. Man  don’t show importance to them   as a before in relationship. It’s not illusion of girls, it’s what really boys do. So why we girls complaint about our beloved? Why we complaint that they ignore us? How we found our partner is really loves us? Our we secure our relationship?

First and last most important thing is love is blind. No one can give guarantee of human.If someone loves you he will love you at the end of his life. Like Remo Juliet. Before going into relationship firstly make sure that the people express his feelings by his mouth, clearly with no other conditions. Sometimes, girls imagined the flirter time pass relationship is her true love. If boy say, I like you ;can I take your cell no. that definitely means he want  time-pass relationship that girls and boys used to make for fun. If a boy jumped on by saying I love you will you become my valentine. So beware he is also not your love. Love is happen when you and other person don’t know how this feeling emerge. Anyways after in relationship always be calm and try to deal everything calmly and with patience.  Before blaming to other party ,do catharsis of  own self.  We girls usually do if boy don’t reply our message we constantly calls or sms him till our phone credit ends. This is worst and foolish thing. Don’t   do that, be patience and wait for his call or message. Then he automatically replied. But when we give so many missed calls and long ring phone calls and sms then the boy become angry. If he is about to contact you then after this habit they drop this idea of contacting.

So be patient. But if they boy don’t reply after passing so many days,  then try to investigate it why he don’t reply you .  In this don’t involve any of your friend on one is as true to you as you for yourself.  Before lamping in to any decision or work try to you be patient and wait. I know wait is bitter word in love. Also when you desperately looking for someone.  Because sometimes your early decision or work may destroy your relationship . One of my close friend do the same then her boy breakup the relationship . Even though  they both truly loves each other but her earlier makes her relationship worst . Actually she involves her friends in this and her friends used to call him frequently and one of them also talk to his mother by her name. So now after 2yrs he again talks to her but now she don’t do these things again now she is happy . So this our common mistake that we girls used to do . Especially when we are our teens.

If your boy don’t contact you or don’t even left a message or email. Then call him and clear the situation if he still don’t accept your call .so don’t contact him again, if he is interested he will contact you. If not then keep moving on. And say life not ends here. He is not made for me.

Many girls don’t do these they are more clever they know how to deal her boy. But sometimes overconfidence is also bad. This case usually happen is after teen girls’ relationship. Their boys are very nice to them also sometimes love them. But some of them also have back-up option. If any case they break-up the girl boys have another option for them. So be vigilant and time to time asked him his feelings about you. When boy is also in practical life means doing job quickly decides the date of marriage. Because its save or easy to know if he is not sincere he will leaves you if not then you saved of losing true love.  This case is very common in indo-Pak. But where is  true love  everything will be good in the end. If you don’t get your lover for any case like in Pakistan many couples don’t marry because of their parents this doesn’t mean you love a wrong person. It actually means you love a true lover who doesn’t left their old relations for new one.

But still someone wants her bf attention at any cost. So do be patience. Also listen what your partner want to say. Also understand his feelings and problems.  Develop such relation that he automatically tells his problems to you. Don’t compliant or blame him when he calls you after long time. Be gentle and softly handle him. Also express your feelings indirectly or directly after listening his story with no interruption. Always remember anger spoils your every relation.

Anyhow it’s a common case in Pakistan. Many guys start relationship via internet they start talking to each other through different social networking website. Build a relationship even many of them tie n knot with each other. But in other words we should thanks to our dare internet that makes many relationship .  In last , machine is just machine, it invented by man himself. We human misuse everything. In the last, excesses of everything is bad even its our relationship. So keep in mind no one knows yourself as you can. So by keeping in relationship don’t flow yourselves in anything as much as you lost yourself.  Love is who accept yourself as you. If someone demands you to change yourself so he is not your true love.  Always remind one thing if your partner truly loves you he will come you. If no one bother your effort of patience and don’t contact you forget him. Take advice from your dear one but in the end solve it by yourself.