Face Book hits me.

Face book is famous social networking website, daily many people used it.  And the ratio of this is growing rapidly. Face book is launched in February 2004 and now in 2011 face book have 800million active users.  Daily many people connect to face book via computer, laptop and through cell. On face book people made accounts and make lots of friends, make groups, pages, events and community pages. FB users usually update their status daily and most often they upload their recent photographs of any event. And their friends like and comment on these pictures. FB users chit chat with their friends, write on the wall of the friends, tagged friends on different pictures. Also like many pages and groups of different brands either these brands haven’t any outlet in their city or even in their country. It is an advanced and fastest social electronic source of communication. FB users easily connect to any world’s site and also they can also make their own page or group and invite FB users of all around the world.

Here I don’t want to discuss the pros and cons of FB.  People love to chat with their friends on FB and it is their hobby to tag friends on pics , write on their walls and love to play games on it. Many users still love to harvest their crops, buy animals for their farms and always want trying to expand their farms. Hope you guys understand what I’m talking about famous game of FB ‘’Farmville’’.  Those things that I wish to buy , but I can’t, I bought all luxurious items on ‘’Youville’’. So how I spend my most of time after my internship in just buying shoes, prom dresses. But after completing two internships my thinking towards FB it’s totally been changed.  Where I was working, everyone is spending their time on FB. Despite this crucial fact, FB is banned during office timings. But everyone used to check their notifications before starting their work and also on half time. Anyhow, after this , in Pakistan FB was banned for few months then people quickly jumped to other social networking sites.  I also made many accounts but after the ban period I hate to use FB. But I was free after my internships so you guys know what would be better choice of spending free time? FB. Same case is with me. Oh I forget to tell you something my first account of FB had hacked by someone. And one of my close friend tell me the hacker wrote some inappropriate words on wall and also on my friends wall. And daily she insists me to make another account and tell the hacker that you are not afraid from him. But after few weeks, my brother made account for me and through this I convey the message that my account has been hacked.  Anyways, few weeks later I came on FB world with new account that I am still using.

So the whole stories relating to FB in my life creating some sort of disturbances. Sometimes, I feel bad why I shouldn’t buy luxurious items like Youville.  But thank to Allah I overcome this depression by writing habit. After my internships, on new account, I immediately join all designers pages and groups , cosmetics pages and groups . So most of the time I spend my time while liking, commenting on these pages and groups.  On my FB I added each and every person whom I met two or three times. But I deleted some persons on my FB accounts because I believe if you don’t talk or contact with people even not once in a blue moon so how could be they are your friends. So now in my FB only my classmates of university ,college ,school and some of my colleagues are on my FB friend’s list.

Sometimes FB hits my inner soul and only gave me complexes like having good job, good bf, god marriage life, sometimes luxurious items etc.  I do everything to overcome this. I keenly observed when I left FB for few weeks everything going normal but when I started using FB again then I don’t know I can’t overcome this feeling.  And not these things solely became a cause of my depression. Here I share you one of my bitter experience relating to FB. In university teachers considered me a good, mannered student. When my university is about to finish, one of my teacher going abroad, so students arranged farewell for him. The invitation of this is announced on our discipline group. For this whomever want to come should contribute 300 PRP, everyone started ragging the event organizer’s boy (he is also our classmate). Like other’s I also commented on this boy, and after my comment my new class mate comment this is too much (300rp) we preferred to go to class than to attend the party. After that the event organizer boy said sir got annoy of those students who show, show off behavior.  That time I thought he was kidding but after as time passes I realized sir talked to everyone except me. After few months, I understand this misunderstanding.  Still on my FB my teacher is on my friend’s list. But I can’t understand what to do, what to say? So here is my story of FB. Now I used FB only once in a month. There are lots of things related to FB that pinch me. After reading this article, will you guys help me to get out of this facebook depression? ….

BIRTHDAY BLAST! HAPPY BIRTHDAY GOOGLE …..

Our dear Google is turned 13. Although he is in his teens. But he is not like other teens. He is very responsible. He gives answer to all our questions either it is pure idiot. We read many books, did many researches, did many assignments and attain many degrees. This is not possible without you! Our dear Google.  Your presence makes the world shining. Because of you world becomes global village.  Now different nationality masses chit chat with each other. People make blogs.  We can’t imagine our lives without you.   From the bottom of our heart, wishing you a very HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Allah may give you lots of years with blooming success. 

Very happy birthday day once gain dear Google. Stays blessed have a blast. J

10th Lux Style Award; Post mortem.

10^th  Lux Style Awards; Post mortem.

Every year Lux held an awards ceremony, in which Lux gave awards to media related people. On 17th September 2011, Lux style awards ceremony was being held at Karachi expo centre.  This ceremony as usual full of glamorous stars. Red carpet were full of different style icons, artists, fashion journalists even everyone whoever directly related to media. Although the Lux style Awards yet not on air but the net is full of its stories and pictures. Lux style awards seem Oscar awards of a Pakistan. In this everyone have a competition to look more beautiful and stunning than other? And this happens also.

Here I give you a small bite of slice in which you enjoy the taste of whole bread. The criteria of style award ceremony; to wear stylish and hot dress. In this ceremony women wear different prom dresses of Pakistani designers. Only few wear eastern clothes. With the prom dresses they look like as Hollywood models. And men only stick to suits. If they spend too much money or time on their appearance so how could it be waste. On the red carpet host asking to the guests so ‘’who are you wearing? Then they tell them all the story of dress. Look how much they are lucky! On the entrance hosts asking about their dresses. Not like our functions, in which we spend a lot of time in just selecting single dress, no one bothering even our appearance. Then the proper ceremony started and given awards to winners and also entertain guest with different performances. That’s how the Style Awards are been held at every year.Here is the privileged winner’s list of Lux Style Awards 2011.

Television;

Best TV Actress (Satellite) ; Bushra Ansari for Geo’s ‘’Dolly ki Ayegi Baraat.

Best TV Actor (Satellite); Faisal Qureshi for Geo ‘’Meri Zaat Zara Benishan’’.

Best TV writer (All channels); Umera Ahmed for Geo’s Meri Zaat Zara Benishan’’.

Best TV Serial (Satellite);``Bol Meri Machli’’ FOR Geo.

Best TV Actress (Terrestrial);Sania Saeed for PTV’s`` Hawa Rait aur Aangan’’.

Best TV Actor (Terrestrial);Javed Sheikh for ATV’s Pal Bhar Mein’’

Best TVSerial (Terrestrial);``Anokha Ladla’’

Best TV Director (All channels); Haissam Hussain for Hum TV’s Drama ``Dastaan’’.

Fashion;

Most stylist sports person; Aisam ul Haq.

Best dressed female on Red carpet ;amna IIyas.

Best dresses on red carpet ; HSY.

Best female model of the year  ; Rabia Butt.

Best male model; Iffi Zafar.

Best emerging talent; Mahin Hussain.

Best hair and make-up artist ;Creative team at Nabila.

Best fashion photographer ; Rizwan ul Haq.

Achievement in fashion design –pret; Khaadi khaas.

Achievement in fashion design –luxury prêt; Shamaeel Ansari.

Achievement in fashion design lawn prints; Sana safinaz.

LSA beauty icon Award; Rema.

Music

Best artists; Mauj.

Singer of the year; Shallam & Zara Madni for ``Payyam’’.

Best music producer;  Royal Hyyat for coke studio season 3

Best music director; Bilal Lashari for EP video ``Shor Macha’’

Unilever Chairman lifetime achievements awards ;Mehanz .

After taking a look on the winners’ list it’s really important to know who is wearing what or what not. I hope you understand the culture of the ``ceremony of Lux style awards’’. Every year, as time passes Lux Style awards gonna more vulgar and becoming the picture of Hollywood culture. Especially models and many new famous actresses wore those dresses that we can’t imagine. Saba Qamer got popularity via dramas and famous TV show ``HUM SAB UMEED SAE HAIN’’ Who wore black prom dress; with deep neck. And Mahira khan who got popularity from youth TV AGG and film Bol, who also wore prom dress in blue color with daring neck. And Anoushey famous anchor who wore good eastern western fusion dress. Oh how can I forget the hottest anchor Mahtira who wore hottest dress. She forget she were in Pakistan. And  Maria Wasti famous TV actress who wore drastic half prom dress. Amina skeikh a famous actress and model wore black beautiful prom dress. And looks stunning. With her husband Mohib Sheikh who also wore black sherwani. And both of them complement each other. And another famous media couple Amna Haq famous model actress and her hubby designer Ammar Bilal looks stunning. Amna wore cute pink prom dress and enhances her beauty. Amna’s hubby wore black suit with white shirt and black tie. And many couples look great like Momer Rana with her cute wife. Although the awards ceremony is full of stars and we can say it’s a stars night. Here are also few pictures of the event. 

After taking a look on the winners’ list it’s really important to know who is wearing what or what not. I hope you understand the culture of the ``ceremony of Lux style awards’’. Every year, as time passes Lux Style awards gonna more vulgar and becoming the picture of Hollywood culture. Especially models and many new famous actresses wore those dresses that we can’t imagine. Saba Qamer got popularity via dramas and famous TV show ``HUM SAB UMEED SAE HAIN’’ Who wore black prom dress; with deep neck. And Mahira khan who got popularity from youth TV AGG and film Bol, who also wore prom dress in blue color with daring neck. And Anoushey famous anchor who wore good eastern western fusion dress. Oh how can I forget the hottest anchor Mahtira who wore hottest dress. She forget she were in Pakistan. And  Maria Wasti famous TV actress who wore drastic half prom dress. Amina skeikh a famous actress and model wore black beautiful prom dress. And looks stunning. With her husband Mohib Sheikh who also wore black suit. And both of them complement each other. And another famous media couple Amna Haq famous model actress and her hubby designer Ammar Bilal looks stunning. Amna wore cute pink prom dress (this time dress covered her) and enhances her beauty. Amna’s hubby wore black suit with white shirt and black bow tie. And many couples look great like Momer Rana with her cute wife. Although the awards ceremony is full of stars and we can say it’s a stars night. Here are also few pictures of the event. 

Rain is blessing; Allah alarms us

Allah never changes the condition of the man, if the man doesn’t want.

 This quote actually describes the current situation of Pakistan. You are not caught again natural disaster. This is an alarm from Allah to change your current situation. Like Allah says in Quran to observe and focus of the thunder of the rain in this there are many evidences for you! In the creation of the heavens and the earth, and the alternation of night and day, there are signs for men of understanding,- They remember God while standing, sitting, and on their sides, and they reflect upon the creation of the heavens and the earth: "Our Lord, You did not create all this in vain. Be you glorified. Save us from the retribution of Hell .

These quotes of Allah tells how important is to observe and to find out those things that Allah wants to convey you. From the thunder of rain light invented and from rain you can store water that helps in your bad time.

The nations who find and research never failed like China. They are a true nation who knows how to cure from disasters. Pakistani people start blaming their running to government. They never think to use their skills, knowledge. They never try to help anyone even themselves.

Last year and this year Allah gave the blessing of rain to needy nation. This rain is very useful for crops. So if crops become good then it’s good for whole country.  But this nation even started to blame Allah why you gave heavy rainfall. Our cattle’s and houses are buried. Our villages are full of water and diseases. Have you ever thought why are we not making dams on small scale to store this rain water? Why don not we start collecting money for it. And make it by ourselves?. It is not necessary that someone comes and tell us what to do and what not to?

Allah likes those who work hard for changing their situation despite blaming on fate. Feudal impose their decisions on poor people only for their sake of happiness. They use lot of their brains how to let down their enemies. They destroy enemies’ crops. They cherish people at the time of Nazim elections but at the time of need they quit village with their family members.

We all know there should be some precautionary measures before the seasons of Monsoon.   These measures should be at larger scale. This can only be done by government. But we can do many things by ourselves if we want to change the situation. It should be taken in the mind that fate of the nation is never changed solely only by one person or one entity. This is the time in which nation should contribute in taken from the current situation.

To calling every problem a natural disaster is not solution. At the time of earthquake 2005, every person put their input in that disaster time. Every Pakistani worked whole heartedly. People helped them as much as they could. Foreign and Pakistani engineers brief them how to build a cheap house. Even they made many for the sample. But after this, they never tried to build this type of house and preferred to live in tin house. So if they person is not interested to change their situation so how change appeared. Last and this year also no villagers and no feudal had worked before Monsoon. The elite villagers are busy in making money and tighten their grip over weaken. And weaker is spending whole day to make both ends meets and rest of life live to fearing feudal.  The poor peasants doesn’t think what will we they do if their house will destroy in rain so how we expect them they think anything about Monsoon rain.

The feudal never made barriers on rivers. They only do one thing they turned the flow of river to another village. So that’s how monsoon goes. Pakistani always thinks this is anger of Allah to us, so just do offering forgive prayers. They never thought Allah is so merciful he gave us different weathers in one year. So we can enjoy different seasons. Monsoon is blessing of Allah to people. Monsoon is good for crops. It helps people in curing different diseases that are caused due to hot weather summers. If we store water in dams then we’ll easily overcome the problem of water shortage and loads shedding. 

For curing this problem. Following precautionary measures should be done before Monsoon;

• First of all, have a firm believe that nothing is impossible in the world.
• Different communities with collaboration should start to build small dams.
• People should plant trees as much they can.
• People can make dykes along the river. (Dykes; a natural or artificial slope or wall to regulate water levels.
•  Different communities, NGOs and different powerful people of village should start creating flood awareness.
•   Also communities, NGOs should train peasants, villagers about flood.
•    Also given peasants and villagers’ first aid training.
•     Also train them to work as group or communities. So that they can able to solve their solutions by themselves. 
  In short, rain is blessing of Allah for us. But we failed for getting benefit and just doing blame to government. Still time is not gone; we should start creating awareness to masses about after disaster situation.
  
  
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Politician’s new sizzling drama.

In Pakistan politics seems a bad thing. And politicians proved, people doesn’t wrong. Although current government is composed with many parties and PPP is centered all of them. But unity is lacking them . Everyone is blaming each other. They never think about the Pakistan.  Target killing and bomb blast is became routine. Moreover Flood again caught Pakistan.   Dengue fever attacked Pakistani masses. And politicians’ revelry is added a fuel in fire for Pakistani masses.

In Ramadan, politician’s rivalry is grown so much.  One of the invited aftar dinner Zuilfqar  Mriza  (is currently a member of  Provincial Assembly of Sindh and was the Home Minister of Sindh till June 2011) in the press blame Altaf Hussian (MQM chairman ) for  Karachi situation. But after few hours he reserves his blaming and said sorry. But before Eid, Zulifaqar Mirza called a press conference in which he take oath of Quran and said whatever I’m going to say is purely true and I have also evidences. So he tells with bravely that Altaf (MQM chairman) is culprit he is responsible for Karachi situation---------------------. On the whole, he proved himself a brave fearless man. And in the end he also resigned from ministry. And tells I have evidences please Chief of Justice called me in court. This becomes a hot and sizzling story of news channels and newspapers. 

After Eid another political blast is appeared; MQM chairman Altaf Hussain. He delivered his thrilling and full of rhythm speech online. He also started blaming everyone. He did this he did that. He is very anxious of his audience attention. He knows all tactics how to control audience attention. He used his sweet voice. And sing a song for different politicians to portraying their picture. In the end, he also gave flying kiss to his party members. All Pakistani news channels gave a live coverage of his speech. And after that again media  take a new topic and starts chatting with different politicians on his speech in their programs.

Media doesn’t digest these speeches properly another hot speech came into screen. PML leader Nawaz sherif that came Sindh for curing the pains of flood affectees. He gave white envelops to flood effected people. He wore Sindh traditional Ajrak . He wants to prove that although he lived in Punjab but he feels the pains of Sindh people also . And in his speech he said very much about the issues and don’t forget to blame Mushraf (ex president). After this Prime Minister Yousaf Raza  Gilani  also address the nation . But unfortunately these two last speeches failed to impact on the media and masses.

Last two three months with the starts of Monsoon politicians also starts their thunder of rain. They totally forget in their rivalry how much people needed them. How pathetic condition of Pakistani masses is. They only know their enemies. Who is more importance than the dignity of Pakistan.  Our media also playing a role of evil mind.  He also adding fuel to these rivalry. I can’t even understand if the media people seems themselves a intelligent and clever mind. So why they don’t starts online campaign of provoking awareness among   people to Dengue fever and how they cure themselves from flood.

The drama of politicians is never end.  It is a soap. If zulifaqar Mirza said I have a evidences please call me in court so I prove who is culprit. So why other politicians replying to this speech. This is purely a court matter. Altaf hussain please left politics. You have artistic qualities. Please go and join comedy or mimicking  show. The people of Pakistan desperately looking for someone who  make them laugh . And entertain people with your melodious voice.  And please Nawaz sheirf if you gone to Sindh for flood affected people. Then in your mind your first priority should be to healing their pains not to telling them OH! Mushraf why you came you are the reason of flood. Keep in mind he gone now you are here.

This is a time of taking responsibility not to blaming. Please mercy on the people of Pakistan. And stop this blaming drama. We fed up with this soap. We want peace and country of Quaid-e- Azam. Please leave our country. We can protect our country without you. Please don’t use us in running your politics.

Boys Katrina kaif

Boys have long wish list for their companion. No girl can fulfill their wish list. The opposite sex that impressed them is only their mothers. No one can impress them even if she is his sister, wives, girl friend. The psyche of boys is very complicated. Boys want those girls who always cherish them.

·         He likes Long and silky hair girl.

·         Should drive car, but no one dare to see his girl friend or wife.

·         Should be master chief.

·        Always wants his wife to take a good care of his family. But gives proper attention to him also.

·       Boys don’t like the high grade of his girl friends or wives. If it do so then they always show suspecting behavior.

·       He always wants to be calling breadwinner of the house. Although his wife is working also.

·         Boys flirt at a time with many girls but do not like this for his sisters.

·         They laugh on girls for watching dramas.

·         They show attitude towards their girl friends.

·         Always set upper position for him. Don’t laying her.

·         They can’t tolerate if girl praise her male class fellow or any male cousin in front of him.

·         Whatever the girls do what he wants is only obedient and soghar wife.

·        He doesn't like her shopaholic nature on other hand; also don’t like her working nature.

·         He seems her secret property.

·      When he is with his friends always exaggerate the behavior of his wife or girl friend.(yar she always suspect me! Poor we! Trapped by them) (yar bhut  shak karti hai ! hum bachre masoom un ke jal ……..)

·      They never regard or oblige her love and care.  Even don’t praise her cooking.

·      Girls change their selves for boys but he say only one thing why should I change my habits for her if she loves me then love me as I am.

·       He always hides his feelings and never shows it.

·     He only praises girls at the time of romance. After that he forgets what he says. Even his romance.

·       He can’t easily forgive her mistakes. At every stage of life he always hurts her by her past mistakes.

·      He is a mama’s boy. Whatever the girl do in last he only say Alas! You would not be like my mom. (Kash tum meri ami jasi hoti). He only likes those habits that are similar to his mother.

Boys psyche is very complicated. No girl can fulfill their childish demands. I think no one in the world get the remarks that you cook better that my mom. Or I am impressed a lot with your success of career. Boys want his superiority either it’s the matter of his girl friend or wife. It would be an insulting comment for them that “your wife or girl friend is more successful than you’’ 

Blessing of last Ashra of Ramadan and greetings of Eid.

 "Oh ye who believe! Fasting is prescribed to you as it was prescribed to those before you, that ye may (learn) self-restraint..." Quran II: 183

Ramadan is holy month for Muslims. This holy month celebrated with full enthusiasm and respect. In this month Muslims fast and worship Allah. Muslims of whole world desperately wait for this holy month. This is special token for earning swab.  In this month Muslims get double swab on single good deed. The Holy PROPHET (S.A.W.W) said: ‘it (Ramadan) is the month, whose beginning is Mercy, its middle is Forgiveness & its end is Emancipation from the fire’- Bihar.alanwar, Volume: 93, Page No. 342. First two Ashra’s are gone. Now 5 fast of third Ashra’s are left.  Every Ashra has its importance and specific blessings. But the third Ashra is superior to first two. There are lots of things associated with this last Ashra. First one its importance of emancipation from hellfire. Second Allah send Holy book Quran to Muslims in this last Ashra. Allah said to Muslims search the night in which he send Quran . Laila-tu-Qadar and Itakaf is also associated with this third Ashra.

 The last Friday of Ramadan is marked around the world as Yaum al Quds. On the last Friday Muslims offer Friday prayers in a very large number. And say goodbye to Ramadan in very obliged manner.

The Holy Prophet (S.A.W.W) said;

                         ‘’ To perform Umrah in Ramadan is like performing Hajj in my company’’ (Abu Da’ud).

Many Muslims perform Umrah on last Friday of Ramadan Kareem. In each Ramadan thousands Muslims perform Umrah. Muslims search the laila-tu-Qadar in last night’s of Ramadan. Muslims spent these nights in worshiping Allah. They recite Quran. Muslims do special prayers in the last Ashra. Many Muslim sit in Itakaf in the start or mid of Last Ashra of Ramadan. And spent their time in worshiping Allah in loneliness. Many Muslims sit in Mosque for itkaf. .Every Muslim men and women are just busy in forgiveness of his/her sins. Also special Traveen prayers are held in Mosques and in homes for women. They just weep in front of Allah, beg for his blessing.  So that he will forgive their sins and show blessing. In short, last ten days the relationship of Allah and man becomes stronger.

After this holy month Allah almighty gives the gift of Eid to Muslims.  This shows Allah’s happiness and gift for his people. Eid day is also start of another blessing month Shawal. People gather for moon sight. Ecologist and religious scholars sit and tell that either moon is sighted or not. The hustle and bustle of people is seen in markets. Stalls of bangles and hina are witnessed in markets. Every Muslim is busy in Eid shopping. Day of Eid is arrived at last.  Eid is an Arabic word meaning "festivity," while Fiṭr means "original nature. This Eid is known as EID-UL-FITAR. Muslims started this day of happiness with offering prayers. Muslims offers their Eid prayers in different Mosques and places which is designated specially for offering Eid prayers. On the day of Eid Muslims gives specific money (fatrana) to poor people. They celebrate Eid with full enthusiasm.

Ramadan is blessing of Allah to his people. We should respect this month. While fasting we should follow its rules of patience mercy on poor people. And spend whole month with respect and consider Eid as gift. It should not be painful, worst day for poor people. May Allah almighty forgive all our sins and gives us right path.(Ameen).

Azizi is an apple of everyone's eye.

Here are few lines in tribute to Azizi. Till now I have not met anyone who says that he does not know Azizi . Pakistanis who live abroad also like him. He is very dear to us. He comes @11 pm on Thursday to Sunday. Everyone is eagerly waiting for his show. In the markets shopkeepers turn on their TV sets @ 11. No matter how many customers are there in their shops their eyes are only on TV. They enjoy Azizi’s innocence, funniest talking. Although every show tried their best in coping Azizi. But they are failed. His funny gestures make us laugh. His foolishness is also very dear to us. He is not very intelligent. But his innocent nature admires us a lot. He did mimicking of many known politician, cricketers, media stars and many other socially known people of our society. He do what others can’t he let makes us smile at the time of hopelessness. He portrays true feelings that we feel; what we feel when there is no light, when there is no employment. What’s our reaction towards high inflation? He also conveys our misery in his sweet voice to MR. Prime minister(MURSHAD PAK). Sometimes he also do interesting poetry .He also tells world although we are suffering from lots of problems but we still love Pakistan. His viewers are not limited to specific age group. Even a school going child is a big fan of him. In short, Azizi is genuine others are copied. And he is an apple of eye for all Pakistani people.

Holy of blood in Karachi and relaxing attitude of government.

Since the end of last yr 2010 the holy of blood playing in the city of Quaid Karachi. Karachi is a biggest city of Pakistan. Karachi is also called city of lights. But bad luck struck with city of lights. Everyday many people lost their lives in Karachi. Target killing is now common in Karachi. Everyday many dead bodies are found in many places. Natives of Karachi were roaming around at late hour. Natives of the Karachi were found walking at the beach. Although I didn’t get the experience of touring the Karachi. But I always admire the lights of biggest city and big palm trees. But for many yrs I only saw news of deaths.

Day by day the condition of the city is becoming worst and worst. Even bombs also attacked Karachi.  From the official source the 436 people killed on the first four months of yr 2011. The worst incident of target killing had happened in kharadar. In kharadar 36 hours 18 people lost their lives. Earlier only Peshawar and terrible areas faced such a horrible holy of blood. Now Karachi is no more saving from this.

I can feel the feelings of fear that the citizens of Karachi experiencing. How horrible the feeling of killing by an incident. Although some areas are saved. But there environment is like a mourning.  In 2005 when earthquake hits some areas of Pakistan. And Islamabad is one of them I know how the feeling of death makes man panic and even the minor shocks were seemed a big earthquake. And we siblings used to sleep in one room. At the time of Eid, we ran to our native town like other Islamabad citizen. Our stay in town helps us in healing our terror. And we felt like bird who can fly anywhere with no fear.  Although only specific areas are victim of this violence in Karachi, but the reaction can seen in whole Karachi.

I astonished the stubbornness of government. Almost every day MR. Malik visited the effected people of Karachi. But sill he said; we ill trying to overcome this problem. We will soon sort out this problem. This is not a big deal. What a shit? Excuse me. Tell me are you a human being. Are a puppet? You have heart/ feelings or not? Why you don’t listen the shouting of people. Oh I ‘forget you are just a puppet. You say what your lord I mean MR. President said.

It is foolishness for hoping to them. Actually they don’t want to solve the issue. They just want to diminish the people then it’s easy to cater little amount of people. On Saturday Mr. Malik said ‘there is no need to calling army they are busy on borders’’. We will soon sort out this problem when only few democratic and few cruel politician are left. When everywhere will peace no blood no shouting .Because then there  will no more people on which they let their anger (Allah ford bide)

Yesterday PTA’s chairman said I’ll overcome this situation and stop this brutality. He also acclaimed to stop this blood holy within 10 days. But Damn care what he says. Moreover how dare he is to say this. Who are you? Why you show so patriotism? Haan why you don’t put money and just chill. Our president is so much busy that he even doesn’t bother to speech to people and said don’t worry we will fight and kick out terrorist people from our beautiful Quiad city. This is time in which he should play a role like a father who wants to solve the problems. But sorry in government no one is here to healing our wounds. They even don’t want the presence of mediator party to sorting this problem.  If army comes then many ill annoy. So who will solve this issue? How many months you will need to sort out this problem? Please mercy on us.

In last, there is useless request for government. Please mercy on people of Pakistan. If you unable to solving this problem that you already know. So why don’t you include some mediator parties in solving this conflict. Your ego, your wishing list and your friends are not more than the respect and live  of Pakistan. So think on it. Revolution of Karachi is not so far.

Amir liaquat is fake or we are foolish ?

 Again the so-called Amir liaquat hussian became a hot issue. He is unable to prove himself innocent .Yesterday my younger brother told me about his YouTube videos, in which he used abused language .This was recording of break time. Also some of his videos of informal functions are present in YouTube.  But I can’t believe his saying. But when I saw his videos on Big brother Google I was shocked.  We don’t know his whereabouts. Earlier we heard news that his degree of doctorate was false. But he is unable to answer these questions. He was succeeding in gaining the trust of foolish people. He was doing religious program for G channel. There he faced lots of criticism. But who cares he was stubborn. Many people crictized his artificial smile and his full of embroidery blinking clothes. One or two yr ago, he switched to another channel A.  Here the format of his show remains the same

After leaking his abusive video he is trying to prove himself innocent. He said in his program these videos are full of dabbing and editing. Lots of questions rose on his character we say a lot of him. But what we get?  Nothing.  This is a time of realization if someone got the degree through unfair means how he is eligible of teaching masses. Why we go the fame of people. Why we don’t use our brains to differentiate between right or wrong. Why we get easily impressed from artificial world of media? Moreover of everything religion is very sensitive issue. We have to rely on just what we read ourselves in authentic books.

I don’t want to write much on what he did or what don’t. I just want to say everything is not what he seems. Try to educate ourselves and read religious books of well-known Islamic scholars. If still you will have any confusion about any issues and its relevance in Islam, just to rely on those scholars who are teaching in universities.  Those have known experience in educational field like Javed Ahmed Ghamdi and many others like him.   In nutshell, don't criticize people just catharsis ourselves. Because we made them famous.  And boycott all those scholars who don’t have any good academic experience.

Love and other disasters;

Shouting, screaming, scolding even beating is associated with the love disasters. Why you always doing sms, calls, net and balla balla. These words you probably heard from the mouth of your family. It may be period of your first crush. When you have experienced your first crush.  This is the period of teen. Many are experiencing the upheavals of early teen. Some forget this period with end of early teen .But love and its disaster cannot be associated to any of the stage, age of life. You can anytime fall in love and you can face its disasters.

In the twenties many youngsters fall in love.  You also heard this in love there is no boundary; you fall in love with anyone at anywhere. At once life has been changed, even the bitter words, worst weather and everything like a heaven.

“It’s easy to believe in magic when you’re young. Anything you couldn’t explain was magic then. It didn’t matter if it was science or a fairy tale. Electricity and elves were both infinity mysterious and equally possible _elves probably more so’’. Charles de Lint.

There are many types of disasters. But love disasters mostly man-made. World can’t understand this innocent emotion and the feelings of girl and boy. They only see the changes appear in lovers. Psychical beauty that automatically appears especially in girls. Lovers want extra space for themselves. In which they spent time with each other. They pay extra attention to enhancing their beauty. Their extra space, spare abnormal attitude of optimism cause of man-made disasters. So here the story of love and other disasters starts. 

Firstly they had a suspicion. Then they started investigating for searching the truth. By any means they want to know the truth. So they finally succeed in getting the truth. Parents, elder siblings started torching the lovers. And parents’ siblings restrict their life. Make rigid rules and regulation for lovers. No one thought appropriate to understand their feelings.

The guy or girl you are meeting is not good. He/she have a bad character. His/her companionship is harmful for you. We know the world better than you. You are kid. Even the lover is studying in university with doing job heard these words from everywhere. This is behavior of the parents, siblings lover had bear. But the lover is lover. And love is blind. Moreover if it is first love. No one can’t imagine the feelings of lover if though parents and siblings also experienced such feelings. But the ego nature, so called respect and name of society made them cruel.

Opponents of the lovers I mean the families also sometime interviewed them. Either he/she are capable of being loving or not. Mostly lovers were rejected.  If they passed the interview then the whole life becomes an examination hall for them.

Many newlywed couples, even old married couples can’t express their feelings as they want. After marriage n laws become a hurdle in the lovers. They feel hatred and jealousy with their happiness and above I mentioned. The man-made disaster doesn’t alone the lovers. These man-made disasters sometimes lead to suicide of the lover.

Lastly, just to understand other feelings don’t impose your rigid rules to others .life is very short. Love is very sweet feeling. No one have a reason to tell you why they love. So become neutral. Don’t make lovers rebellions.

Here is my favorite quotation; this is dedicated to all lovers

I was born when you kissed me.

I was died when you left me.

I lived a few weeks while you loved me.

Bridal dress obsession ;

Every girl is dreamed for a perfect wedding dress since she attained the age of maturity. Before taken the step  into a marriage life she wants this dream come true at any cost. she want to buy dress that should be different and beautiful from the others brides she have experienced.  Although the psych of girls are same despite the boundaries of everything. In western culture girls use to wear different white prom dresses but now they are skipping tradition to modern . Like other countries the situation is not seem different In Pakistan. Girls preferred on their great day. Because of its nature of color shows happiness, sparking and brightness. Now the situation is going different now thanks to media , magazines designers now girls have a vast choices about colors. But on the other hand , because of this the journey of simple red is not no more easy. When there is variety of things the choice of simple dress is gone complicated. And moreover this is wedding dress.

Bridal dress journey is different for different people. Some starts in different way or some only rely to their mothers, elder sisters or babhis for dress.  The story of bridal dress starts from your own brain and many don’t get the proper idea.  What to do or not to do. But before going in the complicated sad story and excited story of bridal shops. Here the questions rise in mind so what about the intelligent women who got the sketch of her perfect bridal dress. These women are highly motivated and want to buy her own design wedding dress. They are usually from the fashion studies or related studies. So they just go cloth market and buy appropriate fabric. And go to the master of bridal dresses and tell them how to design dress. But this story is not end here, master is just a master of bridal dresses he definitely left something that needs your help. But the story of these kind of bridal dresses and ladies are exhausted.

Lets talk about the usual and much expensive bridal dress that  is creation of common mind. So for searching perfect dress women starts roaming from one shop to another. She only reserve 5-10 days for reviewing the shops and dresses. And after 5-10 days they finally decided what type of dress they get from where. Then they go the privileged shop for perfect dress and take a order for dress and some of them cut the embroidery according to their wish. After the tailoring mistakes she finally get the antic piece.

But the story of bridal dress is not completed. But what about the rest who still like mine not satisfy with any of the shops (non- designers) . what they do ? they cancel their wedding or comprise for wearing a simple less worthy dress ? nooooo wayyyyy.  Then they go in the trauma of bridal dress but before going in to more severe depression or anxiety name of ‘’Designers dress’’ flash in their mind.  All depression and anxiety gone into happiness, they take phone and start msging or calling her friends about the numbers and addresses of designers. They finally they take a step in to the air-conditioned, more eve catching shop than non designers. The tailor oh I mean modern tailor so called known designers take a copy and pencil and ask her requirements. And make a sketch and then the dress atlast get the approval. Because dress making from the most desirable shop more over from the hands of designer so bride get the chance of try her dress before the final stitching. So the bride satisfy and wedding dress get the owner of wearing.

But what about the women who don’t afford dresses from expensive and designer wear or even don’t have much money for getting bridal magazines.  Are they remain unmarried or wear  daily wearing clothes with red duptta? They are poor but that doesn’t mean they have no dreams . so what these ladies do. They go to the cheaper shops and tell her requirements and make a perfect dress. But some of them they even had not much money to buy or order new dress even from cheaper shops. They usually buy second hand dresses of the brides who sale their dresses after their wedding. Some of them get the dresses from the rent house wear and pay money and return back.

So we meet all type of dresses that sales in market for different tastes and economical people. Human is  that type of creature sthat fully welcome every new stage of life either is school, college, university ,job or marriage etc. In every phase wants everything new but it depends on the environment where he/she lives. Some wear or use things of their elder siblings or sometimes even their elder cousins.  Interestingly, everything gone opposite when the time of marriage comes everyone wants to wear her own choice suit. Everyone get the dress according to their economical condition. Moreover elite class bride don’t comprise on anything and even buy highly luxurious dress that she wore only once. But we can’t restrict this only to elite bride every class bride wear dress only on that day for the dress is made. Everything counts good ethical after all it is her perfect day. In short, dress should be what you easily carry without the help of others, also in western weddings bridesmaid  carrying the dress of the bride. So please its modern world come out of this sort of extra cloths that only cause of more money for shopkeepers. Buy dress that you should carry out by yourself, also in which people seen you clearly.(not exhibiting of any cloth shop )

 Should be not too much expensive like millions (lakh) . Whatever the reason designers make dresses only for highly elite class not for common people. Make your own mind creation dopt via net ,magazines. But if u have more money simply go your desire shop or designer. In the last whatever the dress either expensive, middle range or second hand this shouldn’t be complete without you. Dress is just fabric is nothing worth unless you wear it. So your satisfaction and happiness towards your marriage is more important than dress. Also every smiley face makes dress perfect either it’s her wedding or causal dress.

Say no to more provinces; please Mr. President ask us what we want.

There is a famous folktale. Once were three king friends who were also neighbor .one day they decided to hold a competition. In which judges tell whose country was best. So the day of competition came. Everyone prepared a lot. When judges visited first country they saw big buildings, big airports, big shopping malls they impressed a lot with their development. They decided to gave this king best king of them. But this was a competition, so they visited second king`s country. This was very clean, beautiful, everywhere is flowers, and there was no dirt. Judges were more impressed than previous one. But the last king’s country was left. When they visited, they saw streets are full of people. People came on streets for welcoming. They welcomed them cheerfully. They showered flower petals on them. They were so happy. No one was sad in this country. So judges announced third king was best. Because they take care of their people than two. Happiness of the people is more important.

14^th August, 2011 Pakistan celebrating her 67 yrs of independence. With the preparation of the celebration we will prepare gift for birthday person. But in Pakistan no one ever think what should we give to our beautiful country. Every year Pakistan only got the gift of problems. Last year, Pakistan suffered natural disaster flood. Due to this no one celebrates Independence Day as earlier. This year no natural disaster caught our dear country.  But many man-made disasters caught our country. These disaster made every person miserable. High inflation rate, bomb blasting, target killing, unemployment, corruption and many others. Recently another issue become a counterpart of assembly of Pakistan let to make more provinces. The parliament unable to provide basic necessities. So they take step of making more provinces.

No part and no person in country are happy with the current situation. Now our own voted parliamentarian started with Punjab to make new provinces. They sit in the centrally-conditioned rooms and sort out the solutions of poor people. They quarrel with each other every day .Then start the drama of how to make up. And this is how they running Pakistan. Now they themselves plan to make new provinces. No one feel the urge to ask Pakistani people they are agreeing to what we are going to do?

We don’t ask you Mr. President what you are collecting and how much is your wealth from taking oath to till now. We just want to request; please don’t make more provinces. We are happy in areas we are living in. Don’t create much fuss in country. We already suffered so many issues. We don’t have job, no electricity, our business is any more, even our lives are no more save. We don’t know if we go market we may back or not. We are no more uniting like at the time of independence.

There is no need to make more provinces. It only exuberate racial conflicts, territorial anger. It’s difficult to handle more provinces. We can bend to one province. Favoritism can prolong. We had bitter experience of this favoritism earlier. East Pakistan Bangladesh is one of our mistakes. So please do ask what we want. Don’t forget we vote you Mr. President. We can let you down. But we don’t want to hurt you.

Now this is crossing the limits of brutality. We are not happy with your current decision of making more provinces. Yesterday was 14^th August. Please mercy on the poor people of Pakistan we don’t have much money to send our children abroad for higher studies. Kindly solve what we suffering. Don’t create more issues for us.

We are happy for calling the nation of four provinces country. Punjab, Sindh , Baluchistan,   Khyber Pakhtunkhwa. If you want to change the condition of Pakistan with whole heartily then please eliminate feudalism, abolishes the cruelty of elite class who make salve weak masses. Eliminate brutality of society against women who make their own courts. And daily announced many woman woni, kara kari, many other become victim of these false norms. Why you don’t put on eye on these issues. Why in every regime weak people become a victim of these courts.

Why you don’t take notice of the high rate of unemployment. One and half year is left in completing this regime. Why you want that history writes ‘you never showed mercy on the people who were hardly living hand to mouth and were hoping your mercy`. Have you ever thought that how much how struggle was made for this state? And you are asking which province is taken first step in making more provinces.  

Yesterday was the Independence Day of Pakistan. Please try to realize happiness of people is more important than the buildings and other things. 

Old friend my poor sofa .

Recently I shifted to my new home. And my mother gave my old dear sofa to housekeeping maid. I saw him since I was born. Our relation (me and my sofa) was very deep . I consider it my lucky one like a lucky stone of people. My behavior was very superstitious towards him. Whenever I am tired I used to sleep on this sofa. Actually I like old traditional things than new ones. I’m very sentimental girl and I’m easily attached to things. So this is  how our love started.

When I m upset I jumped on it. I cried and after few minute I gone normal. So see how I’m deeply attached with my sofa. At the time of every  meal, my mother and my siblings always talked how to erase this dirty thing from our house. But I always raise voice and saved my sofa. When I get low marks in exams , fight with siblings and my defeat, parents scolding  every time no one with me except my dear sofa.

When my exams near I used to sit on my lucky sofa. And I passed exams. The other two parts of this sofa was earlier become the shine of my housemaid. So now you can imagine how pathetic condition of my ex-sofa was. But I believe true love don’t go on the physical appearance of lover. With the shifting of his two parts I completed my graduation. Now my myth was stronger. And my love to my sofa was more deepen.

The happiness of my graduation gone far me to my sofa.  But one day, after a long time when my mother talked about the throwing of my sofa. My suppressed feelings had been reappeared.  But this time my mother is quite serious about the decoration of the house. And she insisted to removal of the sofa. Now sofa was no more in the condition of sale. But this time, mother’s argument and her passion towards home decoration made me to change my decision. Everyone thinks this was stain that can’t be removed with anything. And the only solution of this is to put into garbage or give to housekeeping maid. So now I promised to my mom that you will give this to our housekeeping maid after my masters.

Again I saved my sofa. But this time, Alas, our accompany was very short. I am unable to save my sofa from the brutality of society. Now I entered to my new university for higher studies. Time was running so fast. In the busy life of university I forget my sofa. Now I completed my university. After few months, we shifted to our new house. And my mother gives my dear sofa to our housekeeping maid. When my sofa was gone I felt sad. And I am remembering my sweet old days with my sofa.

‘A real friend is one who walks in when in the rest of the world walks out`.

Attachment would be build with any object. Sometimes, your old furniture, old house become a strong part of your life. That you never wana lose. My feelings, attachment towards my sofa always remember me my struggle for life and his company . This presence always felt like a old friend to me, who knows everything about me. He accept me with all my faults and with me in every phase of my life.